Friend came up from out of town went partying all week got 5 different numbers but have no clue who's who. What should I say when I'm callin these girls? I have no idea which girl did what or what I said to them. But some I know were pretty solid #'s. Should I ask- "which one were you?"
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
multiple numbers last night
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Would you ever point a loaded gun at yourself and pull the trigger? No, you wouldnt. Dont ask them anything like that. Talk to them as if you remember them, set something up and embrace the suprise.jp98502 said:
Lol ya that prolly wouldnt be a good idea. Talk to them as if I remember them? I dont remember anything at all about the whole weekend lol. How should I start? Like this?: "Hi Allison its James" and start my phone game from there?
Ring up and take a tone like you got a pretty good understanding of her the time you met and got her number, then ask her if she has a nickname or what do her mates call her, then she'l say 'nah im just 'kate'' or whatever 
Ive used this one a few times and its never failed on me.
Ive used this one a few times and its never failed on me.
PectoralisMajor
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good advice above
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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You have to send them pics of you so that they can decide if they like your look , if they do you are in...jp98502 said:
I wouldn't quite put it THAT way, but I don't think it would be an issue if you were to say that you talked to a million people this weekend and you need a little reminder on what you two talked about. Then you can just go into the "Oh yeah!" thing.jp98502 said:
Besides, nothing says red flag more than a girl who gets pissed just because you're a social guy...