"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Multiple girls?

Rint

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How do i maintain a extremely good relationship with alotta girls i'm on my way to DJ enlightenment but i don't know how to make alotta girls wanna talk and hang with me right now i'm maintaining a VERY good relationship with 5 girls but it takes alotta maintainence
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Damian

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Get then attracted to you. You shouldn't need to go TO the girls to have them talk to you, but instead create a good impression that will leave THEM wanting YOU. Be more aloof and don't hang around them TOO much. A man that has his own life may be the most attractive thing of all.

-Damian
 

oakraiderz2

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Whats your motivation? Frienship? Some sex?
 

Rint

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Popularity i read somewhere that women go craz if they see u hanging and hugging other girls so yea pretty much friendship
 

oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by Rint
Popularity i read somewhere that women go craz if they see u hanging and hugging other girls so yea pretty much friendship
Then what do you have to worry about if youre only trying to befriend them?? You dont have to worry about your "multiple girls" that are only your friends. Just treat them like friends.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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