"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Multiple girls?

Rint

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How do i maintain a extremely good relationship with alotta girls i'm on my way to DJ enlightenment but i don't know how to make alotta girls wanna talk and hang with me right now i'm maintaining a VERY good relationship with 5 girls but it takes alotta maintainence
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Damian

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Get then attracted to you. You shouldn't need to go TO the girls to have them talk to you, but instead create a good impression that will leave THEM wanting YOU. Be more aloof and don't hang around them TOO much. A man that has his own life may be the most attractive thing of all.

-Damian
 

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Whats your motivation? Frienship? Some sex?
 

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Popularity i read somewhere that women go craz if they see u hanging and hugging other girls so yea pretty much friendship
 

oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by Rint
Popularity i read somewhere that women go craz if they see u hanging and hugging other girls so yea pretty much friendship
Then what do you have to worry about if youre only trying to befriend them?? You dont have to worry about your "multiple girls" that are only your friends. Just treat them like friends.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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