"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Multiple girls?

Rint

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How do i maintain a extremely good relationship with alotta girls i'm on my way to DJ enlightenment but i don't know how to make alotta girls wanna talk and hang with me right now i'm maintaining a VERY good relationship with 5 girls but it takes alotta maintainence
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Get then attracted to you. You shouldn't need to go TO the girls to have them talk to you, but instead create a good impression that will leave THEM wanting YOU. Be more aloof and don't hang around them TOO much. A man that has his own life may be the most attractive thing of all.

-Damian
 

oakraiderz2

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Whats your motivation? Frienship? Some sex?
 

Rint

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Popularity i read somewhere that women go craz if they see u hanging and hugging other girls so yea pretty much friendship
 

oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by Rint
Popularity i read somewhere that women go craz if they see u hanging and hugging other girls so yea pretty much friendship
Then what do you have to worry about if youre only trying to befriend them?? You dont have to worry about your "multiple girls" that are only your friends. Just treat them like friends.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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