"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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multiple girls at one time, multiple options...how do i choose??

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ok, so here's the scenario...

one of my college classes is kicking everyone's a$$ in the class. so today after class i go up to the hottest girl and ask if she wants to get together and study sunday for our test on monday. she does. then i go to another table and get three other hb's to come too. all together there is going to be me, possibly this other goofy dude and 5 girls.

so, the question is this: how do i play it when we're all together? do i try and figure out which girl is the most interested and focus on her? or should i "spread the love" and not focus on any one girl. but, if i do that, and no one single girl feels like she is getting more attention then the other, would it still be successful if i asked her out for a one on one date after the study date?

basically, what should i look out for from the girls during the study session? how should i play it? has anyone been in this sort of situation before?

charting uncharted territory...thanks guys!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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c'mon guys, im really lost on this one...:confused:
 

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Originally posted by golf299
then i go to another table and get three other hb's to come too. all together there is going to be me, possibly this other goofy dude and 5 girls.
You go to the hottest girl and ask her to study together :D ... then you go and ask three other HB's :confused: !!! You shoot yourself in the leg. You should have kept it between you and the hot chick ... and then made your move while you were studying.
 

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I'd give my loving to them all - and don't single out anyone person - if you do, single out the ugliest chick there.

With any luck, they will all be fighting for your attention.
 
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never do that again u could have had all four - now if u pick 1 u lose the other 3 cause they felt rejected anf they eventual find out who u picked - work solo next time
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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This is easy. Make them compete for you!

Qualify them all and say you are looking for a girl who can cook for you, etc etc. Then whichever one tries her best to meet your standards, you know she is the one with the highest interest level. Then you mack accordingly.

Yeah I know I rock..

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ninja pimp..ha! awesome name.
 

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thanks for the replies guys!

to clarify, i had to ask the first HB because we're already cool with eachother. unfortunately i had to next her earlier in the year, but we are still friendly. but i thought if she were to come along that i could settle in and be more confident (and be myself) more easily with the other girls since i am already comfortable with her....
 
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