"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Multi weight-repetitions sets?

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I'm not sure of these...

How do you do those sets that goes kind of like this:

10 reps with high weight.
10 reps with a little lighter weight.
10 reps with a little lighter weight.
20 reps with even less weight.
20 reps with minimum weight.

..Something like that.

What's up with those? What's the semi-science behind it? Examples of this?

Thanks!
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by SamePendo
I'm not sure of these...

How do you do those sets that goes kind of like this:

10 reps with high weight.
10 reps with a little lighter weight.
10 reps with a little lighter weight.
20 reps with even less weight.
20 reps with minimum weight.

..Something like that.

What's up with those? What's the semi-science behind it? Examples of this?

Thanks!
I'm not too sure but any wieght you can do more than 12 with is just a waste. I wouldn't recommend going above 10 at the most. I think you'd get more out of your workout if you split these 6 sets in 2 exercises with 3 sets each ranging from 8-10 reps.
 

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Sounds like burnout kind of exercise to me.

Fun, but hard to do. Helps endurance.
 

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Originally posted by SamePendo
I'm not sure of these...

How do you do those sets that goes kind of like this:

10 reps with high weight.
10 reps with a little lighter weight.
10 reps with a little lighter weight.
20 reps with even less weight.
20 reps with minimum weight.

..Something like that.

What's up with those? What's the semi-science behind it? Examples of this?

Thanks!
It's called staggering sets.

From what I understand it is to burn out the muslce completly, it's used as the last set of the muscle group you are training. It gives a hell of a pump after doing it. My forearms look like they are going to explode after biceps curling this way. :]

You do not raise the number off reps, you keep it constant, like

4-8 reps hardest
when failure have people lighten the weight quickly
do 4-8 reps again
when failure have people lighten the weight quickly
repeat until satisfied.
 

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Just to point something out...

the example I posted, is all one set. I mean, you do the first ten, and someone else (or you, if it doesnt take time) take the weight of. And so on. At the final 20 (in this example) is the end of just that set...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It's called a burnout or a dropset.
 

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Originally posted by semag
It's called a burnout or a dropset.
used for?

Originally posted by shrewd
It's called a burnout or a dropset.
Like.. 20 with liittle weight. 15 with more, 10, 8? Immediately, one after the other one, right?
 

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Originally posted by SamePendo
used for?
Gets rid of all the stored energy in the muscle. Helps with endurance, and strength a little. Endurance mostly.
 
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