"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

(Much) Older Women, how to?

HKgunslinger

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 7, 2004
Messages
59
Reaction score
0
OK, I'm not brand-new to the game and I do got a lot of skill, but it doesn't seem to help much with older women.

The problem seems to be I can't get past initial conversation. Like I can tell they are into me by the usual signs of attraction, but when I try to get a number or email they start getting embarassed like it's somehow wrong to want to talk with someone 10-20 years younger than them. I give the usual about what does age matter, they look young, etc. and at that point SOME of them will give a number or email.

I've got game for girls my age down pat, but I could care less about them, older women are my thing.

Any pointers/tips/suggestions from anyone on how to game the older ones into hooking up? Learned from experience it definitely takes serious persuasion, but is that all? Is there some kind of method for getting the older ones? My biggest enemy is the social taboo of the age gap, it seems women are too hung-up on this.
I need some direction here.

'Slinger
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

baracus

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 7, 2004
Messages
103
Reaction score
0
How old are you, son?

Do you have that young-boy look? It's alot easier for young guys to get older chicks if they have strong, masculine features. Otherwise, you're S.O.L.
 

Wyldfire

Banned
Joined
Oct 25, 2001
Messages
9,104
Reaction score
28
I'm an older woman who pretty much has only gotten involved with younger guys for the past 11 years.

It's not really looking more masculine or older that attracts me to a younger guy. Obviously I have to be attracted to him, but he has to have substance. He has to be able to carry on an intelligent conversation, be mature and pay attention to the world around him. He needs a brain and a certain level of sophistication. He MUST be able to communicate maturely, like an adult. Younger guys who are too wrapped up in themselves, are selfish, boorish, immature and oblivious to their surroundings are just plain annoying and not at all attractive. The behavior that gets a younger girl's attention is typically off-putting to a woman.
 

HKgunslinger

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 7, 2004
Messages
59
Reaction score
0
Thanks Wyldfire, I take back what I said about your opinion being irrelevent on DJ matters, you being a woman :D (but I still think taking relationship advice from women is a bad move, that's another topic though)

Moving on, I am very much into intellectual conversation, in fact I seem to kind of stump most women in this area, but I don't get ****y about it or make them feel dumb. Just stating that I have this quality. The conversations I've had with older women are riveting, sometimes lasting in excess of 2 hours (I always end it first), I work it like usual, patterns and what-not and really juicing them up, but when it comes time for the # they don't want to pony-up, and it is definitely the social stigma of the age difference that's making them apprehensive about continuing any further.

I need a surefire way to get around that.

'Slinger
 
Top