"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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JustAnotherPLAYA

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ok... so.. this is my problem...

I am known in my group of about 15 people as "the playa"... we just started hanging out with this new girl... WHO IS HOTTER THEN ANYTHING!:moon: WELL... this new girl and everybody else have had convos about how she shouldnt hang out with me... because of the whole "all i want is sex thing" sooo... this girl and me started hanging out OOOO! and by the way she has a bf that lives in los Ruebles, california... about 3 and 1/2 hrs away from where we live... so... even though she has a bf...shes CONSTANTLY wanting to hang out with me alone....and whenever we hang out... IVE allways told her its not a good idea for us to chill alone cuz ill be tempted to do something... she never says... SHE WOULDNT do anything... just that it would be bad if she did..and she'd feel guilty... plus... SOMEHOW i know if we did do something her bf who is all CIF wrestling champion 150lbs... would find out and kick my ass....


WELL HOW THE HELL DO I GET AROUND ALL THIS ****!! and what should i do...about all my friends talking **** on me... when they found out she was hanging out with me... are they just jealous or what?!
much help needed.. thanks playa's
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Those aren't friends. Friends keep their mouths shut about your business.
 
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JustAnotherPLAYA

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well what should i do about the girl.... like im actually talking to her on a messaging thing..as i type this... ive been using some of the tips from the DJ website... and i just told her that shes the kinda of girl i try to stay away from because of the whole bf thing... she responds with "well ur the kinda guy i LONG for! "

help! what do i do! theres a bf involved keep that in mind
 
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JustAnotherPLAYA

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PumpingIron13 said:
150 pounds...sounds like you can take him
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**** sorry.... it wasnt 150.... 180lbs... sorry about that... but i need help i dont want this thread to be deleted... help me out..
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A wrestler sounds dangerous

Try somebody new. Wrestlers can be mean.
 
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JustAnotherPLAYA

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but thats the thing.... she keeps coming on to ME!!! saying all this ****.. about how she wants a guy like me.... and im not about to just completely blow off a chic as hot as this one...

so what would you do..?

go for her....
or find a way to blow her off?
 
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Personally? I'd go for another chick. Seems like there's alot of sh!t about to hit the fan.
 
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Well, is it possible to cut off contact with her? Also, don't give into these "single hang outs" if nothing can happen, nothing will happen.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I think maybe she is over the long distance relationship and wants to see a good reason to be with you so she could dump her boyfriend. Either that or shes a slvt and is down to hook up.
 
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haha...well shes been dating her bf for 1 1/2 yrs... thats what i was thinking pumpingiron... im gonna stick to my original plan.... and pimp this SHIZZZNAT!
 
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Perhaps if you stacked the styles like a flipping freak? Or am I getting paranoid?
 
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Yo dude
its my fvcking girlfriend. stay the fvck away from her or ill kick your azz.
 
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