"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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JustAnotherPLAYA

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ok... so.. this is my problem...

I am known in my group of about 15 people as "the playa"... we just started hanging out with this new girl... WHO IS HOTTER THEN ANYTHING!:moon: WELL... this new girl and everybody else have had convos about how she shouldnt hang out with me... because of the whole "all i want is sex thing" sooo... this girl and me started hanging out OOOO! and by the way she has a bf that lives in los Ruebles, california... about 3 and 1/2 hrs away from where we live... so... even though she has a bf...shes CONSTANTLY wanting to hang out with me alone....and whenever we hang out... IVE allways told her its not a good idea for us to chill alone cuz ill be tempted to do something... she never says... SHE WOULDNT do anything... just that it would be bad if she did..and she'd feel guilty... plus... SOMEHOW i know if we did do something her bf who is all CIF wrestling champion 150lbs... would find out and kick my ass....


WELL HOW THE HELL DO I GET AROUND ALL THIS ****!! and what should i do...about all my friends talking **** on me... when they found out she was hanging out with me... are they just jealous or what?!
much help needed.. thanks playa's
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Rondavu

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Those aren't friends. Friends keep their mouths shut about your business.
 

JustAnotherPLAYA

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well what should i do about the girl.... like im actually talking to her on a messaging thing..as i type this... ive been using some of the tips from the DJ website... and i just told her that shes the kinda of girl i try to stay away from because of the whole bf thing... she responds with "well ur the kinda guy i LONG for! "

help! what do i do! theres a bf involved keep that in mind
 

JustAnotherPLAYA

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PumpingIron13 said:
150 pounds...sounds like you can take him

**** sorry.... it wasnt 150.... 180lbs... sorry about that... but i need help i dont want this thread to be deleted... help me out..
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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crossboss

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A wrestler sounds dangerous

Try somebody new. Wrestlers can be mean.
 

JustAnotherPLAYA

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but thats the thing.... she keeps coming on to ME!!! saying all this ****.. about how she wants a guy like me.... and im not about to just completely blow off a chic as hot as this one...

so what would you do..?

go for her....
or find a way to blow her off?
 

WesCottII

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Personally? I'd go for another chick. Seems like there's alot of sh!t about to hit the fan.
 

WesCottII

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Well, is it possible to cut off contact with her? Also, don't give into these "single hang outs" if nothing can happen, nothing will happen.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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PumpingIron13

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I think maybe she is over the long distance relationship and wants to see a good reason to be with you so she could dump her boyfriend. Either that or shes a slvt and is down to hook up.
 

JustAnotherPLAYA

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haha...well shes been dating her bf for 1 1/2 yrs... thats what i was thinking pumpingiron... im gonna stick to my original plan.... and pimp this SHIZZZNAT!
 

Nighthawk

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Perhaps if you stacked the styles like a flipping freak? Or am I getting paranoid?
 

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Yo dude
its my fvcking girlfriend. stay the fvck away from her or ill kick your azz.
 
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