"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

muay thai/k1/kickboxing/shootboxing

Jay-X

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 26, 2004
Messages
1,327
Reaction score
1
Location
Italy
tomorrow i'm going to sign up to a 3-month course of

muay thai
kick boxing
k1
shoot boxing


do you think 3 months will do anything good to me or will i have to go on with the course to notice any (even small) improvements in my fighting skills?

and what are exactly k1 and shoot boxing?

thanks to everybody
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

prosemont

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 26, 2002
Messages
1,041
Reaction score
7
Let me put it this way: 3 months of training is better than 0 months of training. A lot will depend on your own mental (mostly) and physical aptitude.
 

Jay-X

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 26, 2004
Messages
1,327
Reaction score
1
Location
Italy
Originally posted by prosemont
Let me put it this way: 3 months of training is better than 0 months of training. A lot will depend on your own mental (mostly) and physical aptitude.
thanks man, that's just what i was wondering: wether it would have had even the smallest use or if it would have been completely useless:)
anyway, if i see any improvement, i think i could sign up for 6 months...
by the way, i just been checked out by my doctor and he said that i can train without any problem

does anybody exactly know what are k1 and shoot-boxing? i think shoot-boxing is something like grappling or something, but i'm not sure... any ideas?
 

HalfAddict

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 23, 2005
Messages
773
Reaction score
29
Age
43
Location
Oklahoma where the wind comes sweeping down the pl
Shoot fighting!

It's a mixture of martial arts!


If you wanted more useful ina real siturtion.. go for somthing with more strinking... and learn some grappling

because 99% of fights hit the ground in the first 10 secoonds.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

Phoenix_of_the_ashes

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 20, 2004
Messages
724
Reaction score
7
Location
Europe
K1 is japanese kickboxing and is like Muaythai except there are no elbows and no clinch.

In three months youll probably KNOW the basics, if you serious about it you need to do it long term.
 

trd323

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Apr 7, 2005
Messages
214
Reaction score
8
muay thai is the best for stand up because it uses all your weapons. I have been in 2 fights and destroyed a guy because I clinched and he did not know how to defend. I also take grappling. But all those are good because its mma
 

DanishDJ

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 1, 2004
Messages
52
Reaction score
0
Age
51
Location
Copenhagen, Denmark
The K1 rules are designed acording to comercial demands, it should provide the best entertainment, but as for training and your fighting skills I dont know.
 

AETude

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 8, 2004
Messages
37
Reaction score
0
Age
42
Location
Australia
Originally posted by trd323
muay thai is the best for stand up because it uses all your weapons. I have been in 2 fights and destroyed a guy because I clinched and he did not know how to defend. I also take grappling. But all those are good because its mma
BS man u clinch me and i'll break your balls or jaw with my head.

as for the topic, its good for sport and cutting, stay away from troubles, if you ever have to fight then its very simple there are targets, which you should hit and the fight will end with-in first 1-2 minutes.
 

Jay-X

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 26, 2004
Messages
1,327
Reaction score
1
Location
Italy
Originally posted by AETude
BS man u clinch me and i'll break your balls or jaw with my head.

as for the topic, its good for sport and cutting, stay away from troubles, if you ever have to fight then its very simple there are targets, which you should hit and the fight will end with-in first 1-2 minutes.
that's if you can fight, but not many people are going to fight against expert (street-)fighters
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

AETude

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 8, 2004
Messages
37
Reaction score
0
Age
42
Location
Australia
i am no expert mate, theres just two things you have to know.

1/ The Law ( beating people)
2/ Self Defence (where to hit to end it quick so prevent you from being beaten).
 

MrS

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 2, 2005
Messages
1,329
Reaction score
7
Best of luck to you, pal, I've recently gotten into boxing/some jiujitsu, just from some training videos, working out at home, it gives you a great feeling.

k1 / ufc are really inspirational to work out for me.

Vitor belfort for the win! :D

I'd really like to get into muay thai, any ways of training at home?
Like withboxing, it's getting your moves techniques down, punching a bag etc, I'd really like to be able to practise some muay thai, on the side, but I don't have a stable schedeule to attend any classes/gyms.
 

MrS

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 2, 2005
Messages
1,329
Reaction score
7
Some Brazilian Jiu Jitsu moves are never bad to know either, check those out.

I have no experience with that, but I hear they're alwys useful since most fights hit the ground and it shows from then on what to do kinda.

Good luck again sorry for double post.
 

trd323

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Apr 7, 2005
Messages
214
Reaction score
8
Originally posted by AETude
BS man u clinch me and i'll break your balls or jaw with my head.

as for the topic, its good for sport and cutting, stay away from troubles, if you ever have to fight then its very simple there are targets, which you should hit and the fight will end with-in first 1-2 minutes.

Have a friend hold the back of your neck, but preferably the back of the head and see if you can even move your hea; you cant. And when you will naturally drop your head because he is pushing your head down; knockout knee to the head. oh yeah this happens in less that 3 sec.
 

Phoenix_of_the_ashes

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 20, 2004
Messages
724
Reaction score
7
Location
Europe
Originally posted by trd323
Have a friend hold the back of your neck, but preferably the back of the head and see if you can even move your hea; you cant. And when you will naturally drop your head because he is pushing your head down; knockout knee to the head. oh yeah this happens in less that 3 sec.
Yeah I can confirm this, the MT clinch works REALLY good with people who dont have experience in it. Its difficult to do anything at all(ballkick, headbutt) if someguy is pushing down all his weigh of your neck and shoulders, plus the natural reaction to duck under and out will get you hit by a massive knee to the face.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

Top