"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hey guys. I just watched a show on MTV where these parents find 2 people to date their daughters because they hate their daughter's boyfriend. It was actually REALLY funny because you could see a CLEAR example of an AFC there. The AFC date started with him bringing a bunch of flowers to a girl he had never met.

When they actually got onto the date he was making some lame jokes, but honestly looked like he felt awkward in his own skin. He was super nice to her and agreed on everything. He did not lead the conversation and was not alpha in the way he treated her. There was little to no kino involved. By the end of the date he was being pretty goofy and immature (a big no no).

By the time it came to decide between an abusive (cheated and verbal abuse) boyfriend, a guy that is OUT OF STATE (meaning he is here basically for a short period), and him; he got NEXTED FIRST, she even said "You are like a friend to me". Poor guy got LJBF on TV. Check out the episode on mtv.com if you can, or a rerun, its a perfect example of what NOT to do.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Rocko said:
Hey guys. I just watched a show on MTV where these parents find 2 people to date their daughters because they hate their daughter's boyfriend. It was actually REALLY funny because you could see a CLEAR example of an AFC there. The AFC date started with him bringing a bunch of flowers to a girl he had never met.

When they actually got onto the date he was making some lame jokes, but honestly looked like he felt awkward in his own skin. He was super nice to her and agreed on everything. He did not lead the conversation and was not alpha in the way he treated her. There was little to no kino involved. By the end of the date he was being pretty goofy and immature (a big no no).

By the time it came to decide between an abusive (cheated and verbal abuse) boyfriend, a guy that is OUT OF STATE (meaning he is here basically for a short period), and him; he got NEXTED FIRST, she even said "You are like a friend to me". Poor guy got LJBF on TV. Check out the episode on mtv.com if you can, or a rerun, its a perfect example of what NOT to do.
the show is all scripted DERRR its fake..
 

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its not scripted......and its called Parental Control if u wanna watch it again...i like watchin Next sometimes cus it can be pretty funny
 

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i am me said:
its not scripted......and its called Parental Control if u wanna watch it again...i like watchin Next sometimes cus it can be pretty funny
next is also scripted
 

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wutr u talkin about? i wouldnt be surprised if the people on the show were given a few lines, but its not scripted...howre u supposed to get random people and hav em memorize a scripted date without messin up
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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MetalFortress said:
How about the way you get TV actors to memorize a script? :rolleyes:
theyre not actors, theyre normal people. cant beleive so many of yall believe that its fake....its a datin show like any other dating show, are those fake too? is Made fake? maybe the people on Next get a line or 2 to say (like when they introduce themselves) but thats it

explain how u can get ugly gangsta lookin dudes to get on the show jus to be embarrassed by gettin instantly nexted. i wouldnt do that if u paid me...
 

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Deus ex Pianoforte said:
Yeah, all those dating shows on MTV are scripted. I've seen the girls on Next that are waiting on the bus start massage trains with each other on more than one occasion. Yeah f'uckin right, heh. And they all just "happen" to come up with witty lines as they get nexted or when they're getting off the bus? Of course, I don't think MTV has ever publicly admitted that their shows are scripted except maybe Laguna Beach/The Hills so only the cast and crew knows for sure as to what extent the prearrangements go.
thats when the bus if full of lesbians. lesbians are open like that
 

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Rocko said:
Hey guys. I just watched a show on MTV...
lol that's funny...

I saw a similar show where 2 guys were competing for one girl.
One was like a confident, ****y yet charming guy, the other
was a 'nice-guy' who was all ass-kissy towards the girl. I
instantly knew who she was going to pick after the ass-kissy
guy said, "I have a degree in Aeronaughtical Engineering and
work for NASA!".

Oh dear, oh dear...

Well it turns out I was right, despite the logical "I am a good
provider, I am nice and will treat you well" vibe ass-kisser
was giving off, she picked the slightly outlandish, confident
and unpredictable jerk-esque guy.

I wonder what percent of men would of predicted that? Hmm, 10%?

-AudiTy =o
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I am me, are u kidding me, all shows on MTV are scripted, its so obvious just by watching them. Not saying i dont, cause there entertaining, but they're all fake.

But like the OP, i watch them to see the AFC's and to see what the people do right/wrong etc.
 

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asdfghjkl said:
I am me, are u kidding me, all shows on MTV are scripted, its so obvious just by watching them. Not saying i dont, cause there entertaining, but they're all fake.

But like the OP, i watch them to see the AFC's and to see what the people do right/wrong etc.
They definately know which contestants to pick,
and it probably is scripted to an extent, I agree.

-AudiTy =o
 

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Some of them might be, but some of them are just to funny to be scripted.

A good show that I was watching though (well actually the episode), was "Why can't I be you", it was in Cali, and it was two guys that worked as sales man, one was a white guy, the laid back, cool surfer guy, and it was this other black guy who was jiterry, twitchy, looked nerdy, and talked way to much.

This guy either read SS or was a natural DJ, I mean his posture, style, speech, etc, all just shouted DJ, and he really helped that guy become alot more confident and fun and outgoing, he threw him a party, showed him out to dress, got him to # close an HB (even though that was pretty bad lmao, it was hilarious but cool to watch), and all the time was just chill as hell. Was good stuff.
 

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I would so love to see a match-up where a guy
who actually thinks he's the shít with women has
to compete with a seasoned DJ for an HB's
attention. But the show where the 'nice-guy'
took on the jerk-ish guy was okay, if only to
go towards settling the age old debate.

Wasn't there a PUA who went on a dating show
and won? Somebody refresh my memory here...

-AudiTy =o
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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pooparu said:
Some of them might be, but some of them are just to funny to be scripted.

A good show that I was watching though (well actually the episode), was "Why can't I be you", it was in Cali, and it was two guys that worked as sales man, one was a white guy, the laid back, cool surfer guy, and it was this other black guy who was jiterry, twitchy, looked nerdy, and talked way to much.

This guy either read SS or was a natural DJ, I mean his posture, style, speech, etc, all just shouted DJ, and he really helped that guy become alot more confident and fun and outgoing, he threw him a party, showed him out to dress, got him to # close an HB (even though that was pretty bad lmao, it was hilarious but cool to watch), and all the time was just chill as hell. Was good stuff.

I saw that, and thats the reason why i do watch those shows, sometimes i can pick up things and at the very least point out things which i shouldnt do
 

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well if its scripted or not, its still realistic enough to me...
 

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Simple test:

Look at the closing credits: See any "writers"?

MTV's "Real World" has writers in their credits!

Blind Date is the only reality TV I can stand. Heavily edited, but not scripted. Sometimes you can see shy people really struggle to make any conversation at all.
 

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Theres a show on MTV called date my mum, where a guy has to go o a date with 3 diffrent mums and then choose which of their daughters he wants to date with out ever speaking or seeing the daughters.

Well one day i switch on half way through and instead of 3 daughters there are 3 sons, i think ok no big deal, they decided to switch it around so that its a girl chooseing a guy, then whilst contemplating as to why its not 'date my dad' i saw that the person choosing is also a guy.

They had a gay version of date my mum! i have also in the past seen a gay version of dismissed,. Its hilarious, but sad in a way.

One thing that i have noticed is that these days MTV has no music, just jackass and dateing shows.

Date my sister
Date my freind
Date my mum
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Room raiders

they have now brought out a new show called Meet or Delete where you choose a date by the contents of their computer hard drive
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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