"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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MrVain

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hi all

been registered for a while, was registered a couple years back but kind of got over the whole following the bible thing ect ect but now im back baby :D :D

now iam currently with my gf who i think is a top chick and everything but theres always a but, i really HATE talking to her on msn, i can talk to her in person fine, on the phone fine, she uses msn a lot and constantly wants me to use it when shes on. this is a problem for me as i just hate using msn to talk to chicks period let alone my gf

ideas please? some help or advice would be appreciated :)

thanks
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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drummer

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the answer is so simple. dont talk to her on msn. if she gets all pissy then consider if you really want to be with a girl that gets mad cause you dont talk to her constantly on msn.
 
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dude, 1 gud idea wud be just dont talk 2 her on msn just like drummer said,
but tell her u find chatting too anoying n prefer to talk 1 on 1 either on the
phone or in person bcoz thats where u can express ur "true emotions" or
watever u wana replace the quotes wid
 
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MrVain

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hmmm

so if we are both online, do not talk to her at all?

ie. i wont start any conversations, if she starts them should i still ignore?
 
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Don't ignore...man up and tell her that you don't like talking on MSN.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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yeah, just dont sign in on msn and if she calls n asks y then just say its coz u dun like chatin on msn
 
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just whenever shes online set your status to away and pretend your not on the computer when she tries to talk to you.
 
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ItWasntMe

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Actually just block her. She won't know and she won't see when you're on. It's a win/win situation. I do it all the time when girls get annoying and it works wonders.
 
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just tell her your computer is f*cked up and its not working. its as simple as that. I also agree I hate talking to chicks on msn. it feels like a waste.
 
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"have you ever thought about communicating like a NORMAL person?"
nice
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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smooth guy

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sandman6991 said:
Don't ignore...man up and tell her that you don't like talking on MSN.
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You know, this is the high school forum, high schoolers use msn a lot...also text messaging..irc etc. I wouldn't say I don't like talking on msn while actually being signed in if I don't wanna come off like a weirdo or somebody that is trying to avoid her.

Don't want to talk to her on msn...fine...block her ass..simple as that. But ignoring her or telling her "you dont like talking on msn" while being signed in is hilarious.
 
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MrVain

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thanks for the replies guys :)

i just sign in at the most ridiculous times and she gets sleepy :)

i can handle a little bit of msn convo i guess
 
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