"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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hi all

been registered for a while, was registered a couple years back but kind of got over the whole following the bible thing ect ect but now im back baby :D :D

now iam currently with my gf who i think is a top chick and everything but theres always a but, i really HATE talking to her on msn, i can talk to her in person fine, on the phone fine, she uses msn a lot and constantly wants me to use it when shes on. this is a problem for me as i just hate using msn to talk to chicks period let alone my gf

ideas please? some help or advice would be appreciated :)

thanks
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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the answer is so simple. dont talk to her on msn. if she gets all pissy then consider if you really want to be with a girl that gets mad cause you dont talk to her constantly on msn.
 
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dude, 1 gud idea wud be just dont talk 2 her on msn just like drummer said,
but tell her u find chatting too anoying n prefer to talk 1 on 1 either on the
phone or in person bcoz thats where u can express ur "true emotions" or
watever u wana replace the quotes wid
 
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MrVain

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hmmm

so if we are both online, do not talk to her at all?

ie. i wont start any conversations, if she starts them should i still ignore?
 
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Don't ignore...man up and tell her that you don't like talking on MSN.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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yeah, just dont sign in on msn and if she calls n asks y then just say its coz u dun like chatin on msn
 
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just whenever shes online set your status to away and pretend your not on the computer when she tries to talk to you.
 
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Actually just block her. She won't know and she won't see when you're on. It's a win/win situation. I do it all the time when girls get annoying and it works wonders.
 
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just tell her your computer is f*cked up and its not working. its as simple as that. I also agree I hate talking to chicks on msn. it feels like a waste.
 
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"have you ever thought about communicating like a NORMAL person?"
nice
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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sandman6991 said:
Don't ignore...man up and tell her that you don't like talking on MSN.
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You know, this is the high school forum, high schoolers use msn a lot...also text messaging..irc etc. I wouldn't say I don't like talking on msn while actually being signed in if I don't wanna come off like a weirdo or somebody that is trying to avoid her.

Don't want to talk to her on msn...fine...block her ass..simple as that. But ignoring her or telling her "you dont like talking on msn" while being signed in is hilarious.
 
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thanks for the replies guys :)

i just sign in at the most ridiculous times and she gets sleepy :)

i can handle a little bit of msn convo i guess
 
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