"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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MSN/texting - Help!

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Hey guys, long time lurker first time poster.

Just looking for some advice with the situation here. I'm 21, been single for about a year, and have never been good with women all my life. A week ago I rediscovered my confidence and realized that "hey, I have balls". So I've started chatting and flirting with girls wherever I can to try to turn things around.

Just this past weekend I met a couple pretty cute girls separately at a party. I asked one girl out through facebook the next day, and we had a pretty good date yesterday.

I'm more unsure with the other girl, who I spent a lot of time hanging out with at that party. I got her number at the end of the night, texted her 2 days after, and she gave me her MSN. I added her on MSN 2 days ago but haven't caught her online. I don't want to seem needy, but if I wait too long before saying anything she might think that I'm uninterested. I haven't texted her since 2 days ago, as I figure she gave her MSN because she prefers communicating that way.

So: How long do I wait before texting her again, and what should I say?

She's from out of town which makes things harder on my end. I also have very little experience with the MSN/texting game, which is why I'm blanking out here.
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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stop that msn/fb/text bs, its shat. go grab phone, dial number, fukin talk to her lol that works, a lot of haters here but for real wonders u gotta go for the talk, that creates tension & power & get laid ;)
 
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well said cry
 
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Better to text than go MSN sometimes. As she'll have other people to talk to more than you like her friends.

Keep texting her flirty texts. Eventually stop. Then call her. Don't ask about meeting up on that call. Then the next time you call, set up something.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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