"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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MSN/texting - Help!

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Hey guys, long time lurker first time poster.

Just looking for some advice with the situation here. I'm 21, been single for about a year, and have never been good with women all my life. A week ago I rediscovered my confidence and realized that "hey, I have balls". So I've started chatting and flirting with girls wherever I can to try to turn things around.

Just this past weekend I met a couple pretty cute girls separately at a party. I asked one girl out through facebook the next day, and we had a pretty good date yesterday.

I'm more unsure with the other girl, who I spent a lot of time hanging out with at that party. I got her number at the end of the night, texted her 2 days after, and she gave me her MSN. I added her on MSN 2 days ago but haven't caught her online. I don't want to seem needy, but if I wait too long before saying anything she might think that I'm uninterested. I haven't texted her since 2 days ago, as I figure she gave her MSN because she prefers communicating that way.

So: How long do I wait before texting her again, and what should I say?

She's from out of town which makes things harder on my end. I also have very little experience with the MSN/texting game, which is why I'm blanking out here.
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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stop that msn/fb/text bs, its shat. go grab phone, dial number, fukin talk to her lol that works, a lot of haters here but for real wonders u gotta go for the talk, that creates tension & power & get laid ;)
 
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well said cry
 
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Better to text than go MSN sometimes. As she'll have other people to talk to more than you like her friends.

Keep texting her flirty texts. Eventually stop. Then call her. Don't ask about meeting up on that call. Then the next time you call, set up something.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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