"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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She sent me a file with her essay asking me to look trhough it to find errors. I said "no, i don't really think I should press 'accept file'" and she said "well, you can do it" so I said "ok". I pressed the button and when the file was 90% on my disc, she pushed "Abort"-button and said "No, you don't have to look at it" Was this a test?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Should've just said 'hey babe, I ain't got time to do your homework, I'm busy right now, bbl'
 

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Not to hijack your topic or anything, but I sent an essay I had just finished writing to a girl i am interested in. She read it and was impressed. She said I am a really good writer.
Is this something I should have done, or was it a bad move?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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No, Im not a nerd. I guess it was a good idea.

Also, where did that thread go that said something to the effect of "IT ISN'T A TEST!"?
 

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what the hell is this
 
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