"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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MSN Talk

antidonjuan

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A girl that flirts with me in school talked to me on msn about some stuff. But I don't like talking on msn because it is not reality and you can't tease.
Am I right? Avoid msn talk to female (except for friends) as much as possible? Or try to build rapport by talking for a long time on msn?

If I should talk on msn, what should I talk about?
If not, do I just say: I don't like talking on msn?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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042208

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Definitely not "I don't like talking on MSN". It's actually easier to be ****y/funny over the net because you get to think before "opening your mouth". Keep conversations light and funny, and always be the one to end them. Don't tell them what you're leaving for, just throw in an "anyways, gotta run" and log off after "goodbying". Keep the convos short too, 10 mins max.
 

Wodan

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ive met a fair few girls ive gamed off msn and i didnt take that approach. I made a conversational frame that i pass all of them through which can take 40min-2hours depending on how much our personalities connect (if we connect i want to meet them much more and so do they).

defenately like the fact you can think before typing though and i dont run off at the end of the convo, i get her to blow me a kiss on the webcam if she has one, the biggest farewell possible lol. she could and probably does have more than 1 guy on her msn intrested in her so stand out!
 
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This is a joke, talk on MSN cause you want to. Don't talk on MSN if you don't want to. There's no rule to this.
 
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