"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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antidonjuan

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A girl that flirts with me in school talked to me on msn about some stuff. But I don't like talking on msn because it is not reality and you can't tease.
Am I right? Avoid msn talk to female (except for friends) as much as possible? Or try to build rapport by talking for a long time on msn?

If I should talk on msn, what should I talk about?
If not, do I just say: I don't like talking on msn?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Definitely not "I don't like talking on MSN". It's actually easier to be ****y/funny over the net because you get to think before "opening your mouth". Keep conversations light and funny, and always be the one to end them. Don't tell them what you're leaving for, just throw in an "anyways, gotta run" and log off after "goodbying". Keep the convos short too, 10 mins max.
 
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ive met a fair few girls ive gamed off msn and i didnt take that approach. I made a conversational frame that i pass all of them through which can take 40min-2hours depending on how much our personalities connect (if we connect i want to meet them much more and so do they).

defenately like the fact you can think before typing though and i dont run off at the end of the convo, i get her to blow me a kiss on the webcam if she has one, the biggest farewell possible lol. she could and probably does have more than 1 guy on her msn intrested in her so stand out!
 
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This is a joke, talk on MSN cause you want to. Don't talk on MSN if you don't want to. There's no rule to this.
 
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