"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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MSN Messaging - how often, etc

AIR-PILOT

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OK go have some cyber sex..
The point is that a lot of guys can communicate better on the internet..this is a bad thing, because face to face is where the TRUTH comes out.
Im not over analyzing its my opinion and a lot of people will agree..do a search.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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aftershock

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Originally posted by Lost In the Seas
msn isn't neccessarily a bad thing, some girls do prefer msn more than phone...
And your the MAN, shes the WOMAN, and the MAN takes the initiative. If she likes you she won't not go out with you because you prefer phoning her rather than MSNing her.

Also, if you don't have a life, just because your online doesn't mean you have to sign into MSN.
 

arutha

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Also, if you don't have a life, just because your online doesn't mean you have to sign into MSN
But its so addictive... It feels really strange being online without having msn going for me.

But anyway... I find it kinda interesting/ironic that people going on about getting lives are here on forums posting all day, I know it takes a pretty long time to get several hundred or 1000 posts and on this forum there is a sh*tload to read through...

And hey, I agree with running out of things to talk about because you have done it all on the net and talking in person is far more fun and interesting. Action dates to overcome the lack of talking maybe? OH well..
 

TillTheEndOfTime

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Originally posted by sony007
obviously I am gonna take that into account.

what if she is in ur list and u dont have any of her friends in ur list.
There are ways to see who's blocked who on MSN. I suggest not blocking period.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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