"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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MSN Messaging - how often, etc

AIR-PILOT

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OK go have some cyber sex..
The point is that a lot of guys can communicate better on the internet..this is a bad thing, because face to face is where the TRUTH comes out.
Im not over analyzing its my opinion and a lot of people will agree..do a search.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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aftershock

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Originally posted by Lost In the Seas
msn isn't neccessarily a bad thing, some girls do prefer msn more than phone...
And your the MAN, shes the WOMAN, and the MAN takes the initiative. If she likes you she won't not go out with you because you prefer phoning her rather than MSNing her.

Also, if you don't have a life, just because your online doesn't mean you have to sign into MSN.
 

arutha

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Also, if you don't have a life, just because your online doesn't mean you have to sign into MSN
But its so addictive... It feels really strange being online without having msn going for me.

But anyway... I find it kinda interesting/ironic that people going on about getting lives are here on forums posting all day, I know it takes a pretty long time to get several hundred or 1000 posts and on this forum there is a sh*tload to read through...

And hey, I agree with running out of things to talk about because you have done it all on the net and talking in person is far more fun and interesting. Action dates to overcome the lack of talking maybe? OH well..
 

TillTheEndOfTime

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Originally posted by sony007
obviously I am gonna take that into account.

what if she is in ur list and u dont have any of her friends in ur list.
There are ways to see who's blocked who on MSN. I suggest not blocking period.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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