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[trv26]

Fair enough. I don't think she minds chatting however, because often its her starting the conversation. But I do get the point about persistence not changing anything w.r.t. attraction.

Also, if not trying to get with other girls, what other practical suggestions do you have to get over a breakup?

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

Also, if not trying to get with other girls, what other practical suggestions do you have to get over a breakup?

Sh1t , getting girls is so out of your reality. You'll have some bad problems in the future if you don't start acting NOW. You'll never have abundance.

 

[trv26]

Sh1t , getting girls is so out of your reality. You'll have some bad problems in the future if you don't start acting NOW. You'll never have abundance.

Huh? What are you on about? Ok I know I'm not rolling in girls, but atleast i'm trying.

 

[Your_Royal_Flyness]

Fair enough. I don't think she minds chatting however, because often its her starting the conversation. But I do get the point about persistence not changing anything w.r.t. attraction.

Also, if not trying to get with other girls, what other practical suggestions do you have to get over a breakup?

Well you're doing the right thing by discussing it. There are a few (only a few) people I've seen on this board give good advice. Try other mediums as well. I, for one, used to be a LAME in high school. Since then I've dated hundreds of females, thanks to the stuff I learned from other guys (and a few females) who were "THOROUGH" with game.

One thing I used to do all the time (and still do) is really observe people. When I used to take the bus or hang out at the mall, I would watch the way couples interacted with each other. The way a woman gazes at a guy that she likes or the way a woman acts uninterested in a guy on the first date. Occupy your mind with learning body language and other nonverbal signals females give. I posted a very deep post about ways to tell if a female is interested...if you can search for it, find it and look for those signals when you go out.

Getting over a breakup is all about TIME and OCCUPYING your mind and body. Getting women on the side helps too, but the main thing is realizing that your next woman is ALWAYS BETTER than your last. Realize that YOU are the prize. TIME takes care of its self. To occupy your mind, learn from others, read, and give yourself positive affirmations. Also take up a new hobby or improve upon your talents--this will also increase your self-confidence.
To occupy your body, work out, eat healthy, concentrate on your grooming habits, and consider revising your wardrobe.

Repeat as necessary and know that as you get older, your options WILL increase.

In the meantime, whenever you talk to a girl (in person or online), if she says "no" or "I'm not interested", either laugh at her or look at her like SHE'S crazy and walk away/close the chat window. Again, persistence will kill your confidence and in this instance NEVER pays off.

 

[trv26]

Persistence sometimes pays. Girl wants to meet up. Hopefully if i play it right on the day, mayb i can mayb something of it.

 

[I'm in the Mood]

I asked her for phone, said no. Asked her out, she said no.

Do you think she wants a relationship with you? If no, and you still want one with her, you will end up chasing her and it will not end well. Give up before you dig into this problem too deeply.

 

[trv26]

but i knew her only for 2-3 days then. Either way there's nothing to lose by meeting up right?

 

[I'm in the Mood]

Ok don't get hurt. I'd reccommend not persuing her if she's letting you hang out as friends cause you'll be breaking her trust there if u still like her and she may dislike you more in the end, u never know.

Man online dating is just plain risky and unballsy.

 

[trv26]

Lol, how will I get hurt? And even if I did get hurt, isn't this site all for doing something even if its the wrong thing, but learning something through the experience?

Also I think I'm at the friend-bf juncture, and if I play things right I'll be in.

 

[COD]

read the POWER PERSUATION ARTICLE I WROTE FOR GETTING WHAT U WANT

 

[I'm in the Mood]

Lol, how will I get hurt? And even if I did get hurt, isn't this site all for doing something even if its the wrong thing, but learning something through the experience?

Also I think I'm at the friend-bf juncture, and if I play things right I'll be in.

Dude, listen. If she gave you a direct no, that means NO!

If you really wanna learn though, try it and see what it's like to do the wrong thing. Why would you want do the wrong thing on purpose?
Just don't expect to go from a no to a yes instantly.

You mentioned earlier that you've never had a female friend before. If you want one you can actually get it this time and LJBF her instead of her LJBFing you.

Just think about it, I'm only tryin to help guide ya not order u around.

 

[Alle_Gory]

Also I think I'm at the friend-bf juncture, and if I play things right I'll be in.

Is she worth pursuing? If you're just desperate for a girl shes not worth it, become her friend and use the opportunity for practice dealing with women, connections, etc.

 

[KontrollerX]

Move on.

She is not sexually attracted to you therefore she is worthless to you.

And no playing friends is not going to get her with you eventually.

It is a waste of fvcking time.

Again I say...

Move on.