"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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MrConfidence

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Just tell me another good seduction forum for posting my approaches, and I'll leave. Till' then, looks like you'll have to deal with me. I KNOW I'm not an attention whore, and if you're not going to believe me, than f*ck, what can I do? You're wrong, and you're to ignorant to change your opinion, or give me a chance to prove your opinion wrong. I didn't do nothing wrong, but you know what? If you want to be like that, I'll just find another place to get feedback on my approaches. How a guy like you becomes moderator, is beyond me. Honestly though, you must of told a whole bunch of lies to become a moderator.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Just ban this guy. You guys have given him enough chances.
 

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eminence said:
Just ban this guy. You guys have given him enough chances.
Yeah, you gave me like what? One chance. And I was banned before for trolling, and when I stop trolling, and start actually improving, what do you do? You start this bullsh*t. Then without warning, Vincent pulls this bullsh*t, and starts calling me "an attention whore", simply because he couldn't say, "MrConfidence, limit the amount of threads that you make, or you will be punished". Attention whore? No, I've got several other things I could be doing if I wanted attention. And besides? Can I control who post in my topics? No, and to tell you the truth, I really don't give a damn if I get "zero" replies. You know I'm not an attention whore, you just want to be stupid.
 

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Shut... UP!!!

Dude... you're acting like a complete dumbass here. Just leave the site and save some face, PLEASE...

You've got nothing to gain by staying here now. Just go somewhere else... do a Google Search if you have to.
 

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Mr_rogers said:
Shut... UP!!!

Dude... you're acting like a complete dumbass here. Just leave the site and save some face, PLEASE...

You've got nothing to gain by staying here now. Just go somewhere else... do a Google Search if you have to.
You're only right about thing here, I should leave this site. I'm obviously too cool to be wasting my time with you guys. If someone with power wants to be a dumbass than I can't help but do anything but leave. You guys aren't even worth the 5 minutes I took to type this.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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MrConfidence said:
You're only right about thing here, I should leave this site. I'm obviously too cool to be wasting my time with you guys. If someone with power wants to be a dumbass than I can't help but do anything but leave. You guys aren't even worth the 5 minutes I took to type this.
This is not a personal attack, so please don't interpret it that way.

I just have one question for you.

You say you don't care about the site.

But then you continuously stick around responding and attacking others who agree with Vincent.

Then you tell off Docs for "taking this too seriously" when you yourself appear to be taking the site too seriously with the amount of arguing and self-defence you put into the many many posts you have here.

Then you tell everyone that you're "too cool" for them, yet you still ask for their help and advice in many threads.

Does that make sense to you?
 

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cant think of a user name said:
This is not a personal attack, so please don't interpret it that way.

I just have one question for you.

You say you don't care about the site.

But then you continuously stick around responding and attacking others who agree with Vincent.

Then you tell off Docs for "taking this too seriously" when you yourself appear to be taking the site too seriously with the amount of arguing and self-defence you put into the many many posts you have here.

Then you tell everyone that you're "too cool" for them, yet you still ask for their help and advice in many threads.

Does that make sense to you?
I don't think it's taking it too seriously when it only takes like 30 seconds to write the post. And I never interpreted it as a personal attack you just assumed that's how I interpreted it. The point is, that Vincent doesn't know what he's talking about, and nor does anyone who believes him.
 

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I don't think it's taking it too seriously when it only takes like 30 seconds to write the post. And I never interpreted it as a personal attack you just assumed that's how I interpreted it.
I'm gonna chip in with my 2 cents.

MrConfidence, instead of talking about leaving, just do it. If you don't want to be here, then don't keep coming back.

It's pretty easy to make a decision, rather than sit around pondering if you want to continue childish arguements.
 

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I'm gonna chip in with my 2 cents.

MrConfidence, instead of talking about leaving, just do it. If you don't want to be here, then don't keep coming back.

It's pretty easy to make a decision, rather than sit around pondering if you want to continue childish arguements.
Childish arguments? What's there to argue? Vincent is wrong, the end. I know it's not hurting me taking 30 seconds out of my day to type this.
 

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Childish arguments? What's there to argue? Vincent is wrong, the end.
Well done, you responded to the second part of my post.

Now, back to the original point. If you don't like it here, stop talking and leave. If you want to stay, stop talking about leaving.

I'm not trying to get at you, i'm just saying you're doing a lot of talking and thinking, but not much acting.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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BAN THIS GUY! And lock the thread....every time I come and check here this post is always at the top, it might as well be stickied....this guy is just an attention wh*re whos seeking to get it online because he still can't figure out how to get it in the real world.
 

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eminence said:
BAN THIS GUY! And lock the thread....every time I come and check here this post is always at the top, it might as well be stickied....this guy is just an attention wh*re whos seeking to get it online because he still can't figure out how to get it in the real world.
Man, you are such an idiot. If I wanted to attention whore I would just make a bunch of different threads, and spam the forum. Don't call me the attention whore when YOU'RE the one replying. Stop replying to this thread and see if I give a damn. Haha, you're such a f*cking idiot, I mean do you obviously believe that I post here for attention? Well, I feel sorry for you. If I wanted attention there are thousands of different ways I could get it in real life. Besides, the only person I need to give attention to is MYSELF. Man, I can't believe I ever took advice from you idiots. I do agree with you on one thing though, this thread SHOULD either be locked, or deleted. I'm honored you guys care enough about this to ban me.

If you reply to this thread, you lose your right to call me an attention whore, because YOU'RE giving me attention.
 

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...And I never interpreted it as a personal attack you just assumed that's how I interpreted it.
Actually I meant don't take my post as a personal attack, not the other people's posts.

It wasn't an assumption about how you would interpret my post, it was merely a precautionary note for anyone that reads it, just in case of misinterpretation.
 

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Stop giving me attention dude.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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