"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Mr Obvious AKA SKIP thinkis I am a fool to the game for dumping that ho

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Well, it turns out this was a huge sh!t test and I think I passed.

I called her out on her lies and she just called me from her house sleeping soundly in her bed. I asked her why did she lie? She won't answer because this was a sh!t test.

I told her the truth is always better than a lie no matter what. She thinks I am banging tons of chics every night but that is not the case. She has a kid and she has been with the kid all this time. All her texts have been a lie / game to see how I would react.

She just did this to see what I would do and how I would react.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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if you had just given her the silent treatment you would have earned yourself hours of sleep. Yes, you did call her out on bs, but you already did before so who's the winner and loser of the story?

The fact that you gave her so many chances indicates you are emotionally attached, which is believable considering sex naturally will do this.

Lesson learned: Unless you want a LTR with this girl, harden. your. heart.
For your own protection. That way rejection will not strike home since you don't even want a LTR with her.
 
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Alright I don't know what that was last night, and she tried to turn this around on me saying I am abusing her with texts. Trying to make me feel guilty or something and she is the one who lied and manipulated me into sending those angry texts. She has no explanation for her strange behavior last night. No apology for lying and manipulating, no nothing.

Now I know why her ex husband bashed her head into the wall. Sometimes a b!tch does deserve to get hit.

Back to giving her the silent treatment and forgetting her... My mistake.
 
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