"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Mr Obvious AKA SKIP thinkis I am a fool to the game for dumping that ho

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Well, it turns out this was a huge sh!t test and I think I passed.

I called her out on her lies and she just called me from her house sleeping soundly in her bed. I asked her why did she lie? She won't answer because this was a sh!t test.

I told her the truth is always better than a lie no matter what. She thinks I am banging tons of chics every night but that is not the case. She has a kid and she has been with the kid all this time. All her texts have been a lie / game to see how I would react.

She just did this to see what I would do and how I would react.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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if you had just given her the silent treatment you would have earned yourself hours of sleep. Yes, you did call her out on bs, but you already did before so who's the winner and loser of the story?

The fact that you gave her so many chances indicates you are emotionally attached, which is believable considering sex naturally will do this.

Lesson learned: Unless you want a LTR with this girl, harden. your. heart.
For your own protection. That way rejection will not strike home since you don't even want a LTR with her.
 
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Alright I don't know what that was last night, and she tried to turn this around on me saying I am abusing her with texts. Trying to make me feel guilty or something and she is the one who lied and manipulated me into sending those angry texts. She has no explanation for her strange behavior last night. No apology for lying and manipulating, no nothing.

Now I know why her ex husband bashed her head into the wall. Sometimes a b!tch does deserve to get hit.

Back to giving her the silent treatment and forgetting her... My mistake.
 
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