"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Mr Obvious AKA SKIP thinkis I am a fool to the game for dumping that ho

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Well, it turns out this was a huge sh!t test and I think I passed.

I called her out on her lies and she just called me from her house sleeping soundly in her bed. I asked her why did she lie? She won't answer because this was a sh!t test.

I told her the truth is always better than a lie no matter what. She thinks I am banging tons of chics every night but that is not the case. She has a kid and she has been with the kid all this time. All her texts have been a lie / game to see how I would react.

She just did this to see what I would do and how I would react.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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if you had just given her the silent treatment you would have earned yourself hours of sleep. Yes, you did call her out on bs, but you already did before so who's the winner and loser of the story?

The fact that you gave her so many chances indicates you are emotionally attached, which is believable considering sex naturally will do this.

Lesson learned: Unless you want a LTR with this girl, harden. your. heart.
For your own protection. That way rejection will not strike home since you don't even want a LTR with her.
 
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Alright I don't know what that was last night, and she tried to turn this around on me saying I am abusing her with texts. Trying to make me feel guilty or something and she is the one who lied and manipulated me into sending those angry texts. She has no explanation for her strange behavior last night. No apology for lying and manipulating, no nothing.

Now I know why her ex husband bashed her head into the wall. Sometimes a b!tch does deserve to get hit.

Back to giving her the silent treatment and forgetting her... My mistake.
 
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