"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Mr charming
- Thread starter Dynasty32
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
However, most people, once they've known me awhile, love me. I worm my way into alot of hearts. As you can imagine, social circle game is my bread and butter.
Now, what is the key to MY charm? I don't always say the right thing but I almost always do the right thing. I'm definitely "a bit of the rough" sounding but with a classy way of treating people. I seem like a stupid meathead but am actually a nerd. And so on and so on.
Basically I keep girls on their toes and they are often unexpectedly happy with they get from me. It doesn't work as often as smoother guys but the girls who DO like me obsess over me.
Everyone has to find their own niche though. My charm takes longer than most and there are very few one night stands in it. It takes patience.
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Master Don Juan
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Charm is developed through character...and to have character you need to have a lot of life experiences.