I am not naturally charming. Most people, when they first meet me, don't like me. They often don't like me for a whole host of reasons that are disparate and not linked in anyway that I can see.
However, most people, once they've known me awhile, love me. I worm my way into alot of hearts. As you can imagine, social circle game is my bread and butter.
Now, what is the key to MY charm? I don't always say the right thing but I almost always do the right thing. I'm definitely "a bit of the rough" sounding but with a classy way of treating people. I seem like a stupid meathead but am actually a nerd. And so on and so on.
Basically I keep girls on their toes and they are often unexpectedly happy with they get from me. It doesn't work as often as smoother guys but the girls who DO like me obsess over me.
Everyone has to find their own niche though. My charm takes longer than most and there are very few one night stands in it. It takes patience.