disfunktional
Don Juan
If you were to move to a big city, where you knew pretty much no one, and you could afford to rent your own place, would you rent your own place or would you share with others in order to have some people there you knew?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Moving
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- Start date
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Alone. Living with other people is ****. You don't have your privacy...
I just moved to another city and I don't know anyone from there.
Take it as an opportunity, now you can have a clean start and have better friends, practice your new social skills, etc.
I'm assuming you are moving from your post right?
I just moved to another city and I don't know anyone from there.
Take it as an opportunity, now you can have a clean start and have better friends, practice your new social skills, etc.
I'm assuming you are moving from your post right?
disfunktional
Don Juan
Yep, moving to London. I don't know anyone though, a few people from work but mostly not the sort of people I would want to hang around with. I just wondered peoples opinions. I do like my own space, and I have lived on my own before, but sometimes I find it can get quite lonely.
I felt lonely couple of years ago sometimes too (I've been living practically alone since I was 16).disfunktional said:
You just have to start over and make new friends. Try to find some alpha males to make friends with. A new hobby might help, something that requires other people, like martial arts for example.
I imagine there are many kind of social clubs in London as well.
Remember to explore and keep your eyes open and socialize. And don't get stuck on first people that are friendly to you. As you evolve as yourself (being a DJ), you should make your social circles evolve, don't hang out with losers, try to find the winners.
I'm facing the same challenge man, it's not easy to start from nothing without knowing anyone going to a work that doesn't involve much socializing...
Hey, there are always bars and clubs
disfunktional
Don Juan
thanks Ice
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
diablo
Master Don Juan
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