disfunktional
Don Juan
If you were to move to a big city, where you knew pretty much no one, and you could afford to rent your own place, would you rent your own place or would you share with others in order to have some people there you knew?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Moving
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Alone. Living with other people is ****. You don't have your privacy...
I just moved to another city and I don't know anyone from there.
Take it as an opportunity, now you can have a clean start and have better friends, practice your new social skills, etc.
I'm assuming you are moving from your post right?
I just moved to another city and I don't know anyone from there.
Take it as an opportunity, now you can have a clean start and have better friends, practice your new social skills, etc.
I'm assuming you are moving from your post right?
disfunktional
Don Juan
Yep, moving to London. I don't know anyone though, a few people from work but mostly not the sort of people I would want to hang around with. I just wondered peoples opinions. I do like my own space, and I have lived on my own before, but sometimes I find it can get quite lonely.
I felt lonely couple of years ago sometimes too (I've been living practically alone since I was 16).disfunktional said:
You just have to start over and make new friends. Try to find some alpha males to make friends with. A new hobby might help, something that requires other people, like martial arts for example.
I imagine there are many kind of social clubs in London as well.
Remember to explore and keep your eyes open and socialize. And don't get stuck on first people that are friendly to you. As you evolve as yourself (being a DJ), you should make your social circles evolve, don't hang out with losers, try to find the winners.
I'm facing the same challenge man, it's not easy to start from nothing without knowing anyone going to a work that doesn't involve much socializing...
Hey, there are always bars and clubs
disfunktional
Don Juan
thanks Ice
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diablo
Master Don Juan
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