No. I work long hours. In my spare time I train, housework, & see my girls, friends whatever.
I would advise joining a sports team, gym, & yeah go to the local bars & start interacting with people. Making the first move is the hardest part. I remember I was in a new bar in town waiting for my date. I was stood at the bar by myself & thought hmm I would create a better first impression if I was talking/interacting with someone, so I saw a table of four guys. Doubt crept in making me think they could think you're a weirdo blah blah, but I crushed my doubt & approached them asking them if they worked for a certain building company as I had noticed their accent, had a good conversation then my date arrived impressed with my social skills. < that was a great start with her.
Read Dale Carneige How to win friends & influence people (if you haven't already read it)
