"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Moving to London

Metalixia

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Hi, I'm starting university next year, at Aberdeen (I live about 40 miles away), but afterwards I want to live and work in London.

I've got several options for career choices, so I don't think finding a job will be difficult.

But, accomodation's very expensive in London, and I'm sure the olympic games are gonna bring the market value even higher, so how would on afford to move there?

i know there a several guys here from London, so i'm just asking about how they got themselves situated there.

Thanks,

Lewis
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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MoonieTX

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Dude,

I used to live in England. Depending how much money you are earning and work you do, the other option would be to live in the Burbs and commute every day. Although thats sucks big time.

The other option is to get together with 4-5 mates and just rent a place. London is a big city and not all of it is too expensive.
Cheers
Moonie
 

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If I didn't have a job here, I'd think about moving to London too.

TO KICK SOME ISLAMIC ASS.

Those monsters got to be stopped. But what does the government do? Let the extremists protest.

I'd at least bash a few of those lunatics before they could keep up their terror.

OK I'm feeling better now.

AND A BIG F YOU IN ADVANCE IF YOU CONSIDER THIS POLITICALLY INCORRECT OR RACIALLY INSENSITIVE. WE"RE TALKING ABOUT TERRORIST POND SCUM LOSER AFCS ****HEADS HERE!
 

Metalixia

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Terrorists are wankers. But look around, it's not just special treatment with the Al-quieda ones.

The IRA, and other rebel groups in NI, they march around with guns murdering people, and what do the government do? they plead and bargian with them. IRA is one of the most richest and influential organisations in the world, and that's why the government plead with them. Out of cowardice.

Muslims aren't terrorists.
 

octane_orphan

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... i have just moved to london and to behonest I would have been able to afford it stright from uni....

my advice is move back home for a year, find a job, stick it for a year, move on to london for you 1st career progression job.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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