"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Moving to a new bachelor pad...can't wait!

STR8UP

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Started out a few years ago when I moved into a downtown apartment by myself (no roommate) for the first time. Walking distance to all the restaurants and clubs, lots of chicks living in the building, pretty nice.

Then I moved a couple of blocks away into a THE bachelor pad. A three story townhouse with a fourth floor rooftop deck and jacuzzi. Impressive to look at, but more space than I need and a pain in the ass to live in and maintain. Sooooo.....

I contracted to purchase a 17th floor high rise condo a couple of years back with the intention of flipping it when it was completed. The building is directly in the center of the entertainment district and is going to have a 12 screen cinema, several restaurants, bars, etc. RIGHT IN THE BUILDING! Not to mention the fact that there are dozens of other restaurants and clubs within a two minute walk. This place is truly the EPICENTER of everything thats happening here and the building is finished, so I have decided to move into the high rise.

Could prove to be dangerous to be so close to all of the action, but I'm prepared to make the sacrifice :rockon:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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risk and reward go hand in hand. I admire your choice.
 

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synergy1 said:
risk and reward go hand in hand. I admire your choice.
Yea, this was one of the risks I made recently that is gonna pay off. Bought the thing for under $250k and it's probably worth about $350k today despite the market being very slow.

Real estate is where it's at fellas. Making money AND getting to live in a killer bachelor pad....what more can a single guy ask for?
 
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