Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
banGbro said:Hahahaha.
Here is a good line:
HER: I have a boyfriend.
YOU: You have a boyfriend??? ......... Im gonna have to STEAL you.
Especially after her sending you messages and clues for several days that she has a boyfriend.
You cant use it now but sure will be able in the future with any woman you come across who has a boyfriend. If you say it right in front of her friends, co workers, etc, that makes them wet!
Nah, you gotta approach, if shes walking, hey can I talk to you for a minute. She stops you take it from there, eye contact, ignore the other dude, dont give a sh1t attitude, and very confident. She says I gotta go somewhere, tell her its only one minute, if she keeps walking or says no, what you do is come next to her, put your arm around her shoulders, confidentely, tell her, Ill walk with you then, as you look from the side into her eyes and then down her body, and then straight forward, no smiles, **** a55 b1tch. Then look at her again, whats your name?
This stuff is easy, especially with women that ignore you, such as when talking on the phone and looking the other way.
I had this one young slut that done that, so I change my direction and walk to the other side, to the side she was looking to. Hiiiiiiiii. Can I talk to you for a minute. She was like, wtf? So I exchaggerate her look and go wtf. I ended up walking her to her car, by that time she hang up and was hot for me. Next time I met her she was eager to talk to me.
You gotta approach. A solution to any situation is to approach.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Thats true.banGbro said:If she didnt give you her address then its creepy to contact her. That means you looked her up, or are browsing for women. Eh, just talk to her. Note that the more you thing of the hoe, the more chances you will have of screwing up.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I always same the same stuff boldlybanGbro said:Yea, use that line like you mean. You gotta display dominant body language with the girl, and the guy.
Man, this one chick lives in my building, whenever I think about her I cant approach her. The idea is to fvck her and her mom, but if I think about what to say, what will happen, all that bull sh1t, I just cant approach them. The other day couple of weeks ago I came across her mom in the elevator, totally unexpected, and totally natural. Made her laught a bit. Her mom is hot for me. I guess they talk about it, and now I see her doing things so she could meet with me.