When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
banGbro said:Hahahaha.
Here is a good line:
HER: I have a boyfriend.
YOU: You have a boyfriend??? ......... Im gonna have to STEAL you.
Especially after her sending you messages and clues for several days that she has a boyfriend.
You cant use it now but sure will be able in the future with any woman you come across who has a boyfriend. If you say it right in front of her friends, co workers, etc, that makes them wet!
Nah, you gotta approach, if shes walking, hey can I talk to you for a minute. She stops you take it from there, eye contact, ignore the other dude, dont give a sh1t attitude, and very confident. She says I gotta go somewhere, tell her its only one minute, if she keeps walking or says no, what you do is come next to her, put your arm around her shoulders, confidentely, tell her, Ill walk with you then, as you look from the side into her eyes and then down her body, and then straight forward, no smiles, **** a55 b1tch. Then look at her again, whats your name?
This stuff is easy, especially with women that ignore you, such as when talking on the phone and looking the other way.
I had this one young slut that done that, so I change my direction and walk to the other side, to the side she was looking to. Hiiiiiiiii. Can I talk to you for a minute. She was like, wtf? So I exchaggerate her look and go wtf. I ended up walking her to her car, by that time she hang up and was hot for me. Next time I met her she was eager to talk to me.
You gotta approach. A solution to any situation is to approach.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Thats true.banGbro said:If she didnt give you her address then its creepy to contact her. That means you looked her up, or are browsing for women. Eh, just talk to her. Note that the more you thing of the hoe, the more chances you will have of screwing up.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I always same the same stuff boldlybanGbro said:Yea, use that line like you mean. You gotta display dominant body language with the girl, and the guy.
Man, this one chick lives in my building, whenever I think about her I cant approach her. The idea is to fvck her and her mom, but if I think about what to say, what will happen, all that bull sh1t, I just cant approach them. The other day couple of weeks ago I came across her mom in the elevator, totally unexpected, and totally natural. Made her laught a bit. Her mom is hot for me. I guess they talk about it, and now I see her doing things so she could meet with me.