We just broke up last night and I'm moving out on Monday. I have a lot of packing to do, but I have all weekend to do it until my buddies get up here Monday morning.
The break up ended bad. I found out that she's seeing some other guy here in town and has been for the last 2 weeks. I'm pretty pissed after everything that I've done for her to have her just spit in my face like this. I went over and beyond what was expected of me to not only help her out, but help her two kids as well. Her ex doesn't pay child support so I paid for graduation pictures, high school sports, gas money/spending money, school clothes; etc. She was using me and I fell for it. However, this morning when we talked she did agree to pay me back some of the money she owes me. She can't afford to pay me back the full $3,800 so we settled on a lower amount which she will pay on Monday. Once I get what she owes me then I will start NC and never look back. She actually had the nerve to ask if we could remain friends, I couldn't believe it!
In the meantime, I will be staying at the hotel right down the street and will continue to pack my things when she's not at the house.
I already deleted all contact info. Her phone, email, facebook and have to get a couple of the bills out of my name this afternoon as well.
I never argued in front of her two kids even though she tried to a few times. They shouldn't have to be subjected to that, they didn't do anything wrong. I don't want her to ever contact me again and I'm a little torn if I should remove her two teenagers off of facebook as well. I know it sounds dumb but I don't want her logging in through their accts just to see what I'm up to.
Thanx for letting me vent. Just really pissed off right now that I got played like that!
The break up ended bad. I found out that she's seeing some other guy here in town and has been for the last 2 weeks. I'm pretty pissed after everything that I've done for her to have her just spit in my face like this. I went over and beyond what was expected of me to not only help her out, but help her two kids as well. Her ex doesn't pay child support so I paid for graduation pictures, high school sports, gas money/spending money, school clothes; etc. She was using me and I fell for it. However, this morning when we talked she did agree to pay me back some of the money she owes me. She can't afford to pay me back the full $3,800 so we settled on a lower amount which she will pay on Monday. Once I get what she owes me then I will start NC and never look back. She actually had the nerve to ask if we could remain friends, I couldn't believe it!
In the meantime, I will be staying at the hotel right down the street and will continue to pack my things when she's not at the house.
I already deleted all contact info. Her phone, email, facebook and have to get a couple of the bills out of my name this afternoon as well.
I never argued in front of her two kids even though she tried to a few times. They shouldn't have to be subjected to that, they didn't do anything wrong. I don't want her to ever contact me again and I'm a little torn if I should remove her two teenagers off of facebook as well. I know it sounds dumb but I don't want her logging in through their accts just to see what I'm up to.
Thanx for letting me vent. Just really pissed off right now that I got played like that!