"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

Moving out of the friend zone with girl I've known for a long time

E

eko

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 5, 2007
Messages
144
Reaction score
2
Hey I'm new here. I came across this place recently and I read a lot of the stuff... here's a little bit about myself... i'm an 17 year old senior in hs. i'm very athletic, pretty attractive (i know im not ugly).

i'm a bit shy, especially when it comes to girls i start to like. i've never been a flirter or don juan or whatever you want to call it. a few girls have been interested in me but ive still never hooked up with anyone or even kissed a girl. Sad, right?

anyway, there's this girl. i've known her ever since like elementary school or whatever. we've been sorta friends over the years, kinda like acquaintances, but recently ive started to like her and i think she might be interested in me. girls seem hard to read sometimes to me so i can't say for sure, but she talks to me a lot, we say hi in the halls etc etc. So, i know where this is going... straight to the friend zone. and I want to get out of it, NOW! We've been in the friend zone for a while actually. I just know there's some sort of tension between us. What's the best way to get out of the friend zone? Recently i called her to see if she wanted to go to the movies but she stalled like an old piece of shit car trying to start in the winter. This just threw me off.
 
Last edited:

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

N

NeedsAGuitar

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 11, 2006
Messages
12
Reaction score
0
If you're in the friends zone, just move on. It's hella easier getting a girl then getting out of the friends zone. You said you've been reading a lot of stuff here. Well now its the time to apply it. Start an approach journal or something. Make a goal to talk to a new person every day to get rid of your shyness.

But if you think this girl is worth it, then just stop ALL contact with her. Aim/e-mail/phone everything. More details here: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=21610&highlight=ganji
 
E

eko

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 5, 2007
Messages
144
Reaction score
2
alright... i shoulda mentioned this before. i want advice on how not to get into the friend zone. im on the fast road to it i think and if i dont do something soon then i think it's friend zone f o r e v e r. i meant that we've been aquaintences for a long time and i think we've just recently taken a liking to eachother. so hopefully we're not completely doomed eh?
 
E

eko

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 5, 2007
Messages
144
Reaction score
2
you know what fvck it im just gonna go for it, i dunno why im acting like such a pvssy
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top