"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Moving out of the friend zone with girl I've known for a long time

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Hey I'm new here. I came across this place recently and I read a lot of the stuff... here's a little bit about myself... i'm an 17 year old senior in hs. i'm very athletic, pretty attractive (i know im not ugly).

i'm a bit shy, especially when it comes to girls i start to like. i've never been a flirter or don juan or whatever you want to call it. a few girls have been interested in me but ive still never hooked up with anyone or even kissed a girl. Sad, right?

anyway, there's this girl. i've known her ever since like elementary school or whatever. we've been sorta friends over the years, kinda like acquaintances, but recently ive started to like her and i think she might be interested in me. girls seem hard to read sometimes to me so i can't say for sure, but she talks to me a lot, we say hi in the halls etc etc. So, i know where this is going... straight to the friend zone. and I want to get out of it, NOW! We've been in the friend zone for a while actually. I just know there's some sort of tension between us. What's the best way to get out of the friend zone? Recently i called her to see if she wanted to go to the movies but she stalled like an old piece of shit car trying to start in the winter. This just threw me off.
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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If you're in the friends zone, just move on. It's hella easier getting a girl then getting out of the friends zone. You said you've been reading a lot of stuff here. Well now its the time to apply it. Start an approach journal or something. Make a goal to talk to a new person every day to get rid of your shyness.

But if you think this girl is worth it, then just stop ALL contact with her. Aim/e-mail/phone everything. More details here: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=21610&highlight=ganji
 
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alright... i shoulda mentioned this before. i want advice on how not to get into the friend zone. im on the fast road to it i think and if i dont do something soon then i think it's friend zone f o r e v e r. i meant that we've been aquaintences for a long time and i think we've just recently taken a liking to eachother. so hopefully we're not completely doomed eh?
 
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you know what fvck it im just gonna go for it, i dunno why im acting like such a pvssy
 
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