"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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1. How do you get rid of interest in a certain girl and move to another one? It seems hard to change everything by willing it. I think the only way is to replace her with another. That's what I've done in the past, but its very hard. Every other girl I meet is compared to her and cannot compare. Oneitis is terminal to me.

2. Is it at all possible to somehow meet the boyfriend, see what he's like, and do it better than him?

3. She has a friend that is very similar to her, but she's in one of my classes and I'm never the object of attention in there because I'm so tired in school. If the others found out we were going out or that I liked her than there'd be probelms. They'd joke and crap and act gay.

4. Could staying the friend of the girl I really like work if I bide my time and wait for her to break up with her boyfriend? It's happened between them before. She must feel that unexplainable attraction thing but is also repelled at the same time for some reason.

5. I went to prom with herlast year, does it mean anything?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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LikRetsam

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A clear and simple choice you make.
 
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TonyTheTigerOI

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1. You look in the mirror, take a deep breath, and realize that no matter the reason for her folly - she is missing out on a guy would be good to her. Then you allow a barbaric yalp, take a moment to grin, tell yourself youre sexy, and try and find more girls.

Don't say "none compare" because thats bull****.

2. Of course... but who do you think you are... me?

3. If people make fun of you over your choice of girls - they are just jealous they dont have the courage to tell THEIR target what they want.

4. No

5. No
 
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Maeisgood

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What I meant about others in the class is that they will be **** blockers and stuff and that sucks. Its like going after a girl you work with, its not a good idea. Her friend (the one I like) calls me to do stuff, I don't call her, she has a boyfriend she has broken up with before and they are back together again, and she also wants me to go out with her friend in my class. She has hinted at that before.
 
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