"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Maeisgood

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1. How do you get rid of interest in a certain girl and move to another one? It seems hard to change everything by willing it. I think the only way is to replace her with another. That's what I've done in the past, but its very hard. Every other girl I meet is compared to her and cannot compare. Oneitis is terminal to me.

2. Is it at all possible to somehow meet the boyfriend, see what he's like, and do it better than him?

3. She has a friend that is very similar to her, but she's in one of my classes and I'm never the object of attention in there because I'm so tired in school. If the others found out we were going out or that I liked her than there'd be probelms. They'd joke and crap and act gay.

4. Could staying the friend of the girl I really like work if I bide my time and wait for her to break up with her boyfriend? It's happened between them before. She must feel that unexplainable attraction thing but is also repelled at the same time for some reason.

5. I went to prom with herlast year, does it mean anything?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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LikRetsam

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A clear and simple choice you make.
 
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1. You look in the mirror, take a deep breath, and realize that no matter the reason for her folly - she is missing out on a guy would be good to her. Then you allow a barbaric yalp, take a moment to grin, tell yourself youre sexy, and try and find more girls.

Don't say "none compare" because thats bull****.

2. Of course... but who do you think you are... me?

3. If people make fun of you over your choice of girls - they are just jealous they dont have the courage to tell THEIR target what they want.

4. No

5. No
 
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What I meant about others in the class is that they will be **** blockers and stuff and that sucks. Its like going after a girl you work with, its not a good idea. Her friend (the one I like) calls me to do stuff, I don't call her, she has a boyfriend she has broken up with before and they are back together again, and she also wants me to go out with her friend in my class. She has hinted at that before.
 
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