"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Moving on.

Maeisgood

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1. How do you get rid of interest in a certain girl and move to another one? It seems hard to change everything by willing it. I think the only way is to replace her with another. That's what I've done in the past, but its very hard. Every other girl I meet is compared to her and cannot compare. Oneitis is terminal to me.

2. Is it at all possible to somehow meet the boyfriend, see what he's like, and do it better than him?

3. She has a friend that is very similar to her, but she's in one of my classes and I'm never the object of attention in there because I'm so tired in school. If the others found out we were going out or that I liked her than there'd be probelms. They'd joke and crap and act gay.

4. Could staying the friend of the girl I really like work if I bide my time and wait for her to break up with her boyfriend? It's happened between them before. She must feel that unexplainable attraction thing but is also repelled at the same time for some reason.

5. I went to prom with herlast year, does it mean anything?
 

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LikRetsam

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A clear and simple choice you make.
 

TonyTheTigerOI

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1. You look in the mirror, take a deep breath, and realize that no matter the reason for her folly - she is missing out on a guy would be good to her. Then you allow a barbaric yalp, take a moment to grin, tell yourself youre sexy, and try and find more girls.

Don't say "none compare" because thats bull****.

2. Of course... but who do you think you are... me?

3. If people make fun of you over your choice of girls - they are just jealous they dont have the courage to tell THEIR target what they want.

4. No

5. No
 

Maeisgood

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What I meant about others in the class is that they will be **** blockers and stuff and that sucks. Its like going after a girl you work with, its not a good idea. Her friend (the one I like) calls me to do stuff, I don't call her, she has a boyfriend she has broken up with before and they are back together again, and she also wants me to go out with her friend in my class. She has hinted at that before.
 
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