Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Moving on...Update

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Hey boys,

Well I posted about ten days ago, about my girlfriend of 2 years basically just dumping me out of the blue (or so I thought, I should have read the signs). We were supposed to go to Europe May 1st, so that was a bummer. A trip we had planned for so long together, gone and in the books. Not to mention I lost 1000 bucks on cancellation fees of flights and tour.

Anyways, I just wanted to say that for all those going through a similar situation, life does go on, and it goes on fast! After she dumped me, I got laid twice in two nights, and although I'm physically over her, I'm feeling better emotionally.

I don't expect myself to get over her in a day, a week, or even a month, as she was truly my first love. However, once we get back in that mindset that we are the prize, and other women WILL find you attractive, you get on the horse and get back out there.

Don't feel sorry for yourself, although you might sit and wallow for a day or even a week, pull yourself together and realize the value of exactly WHO you are, and if some girl doesn't think you're worth it, then screw it.

Live your life, it will not only make you feel better, but it is also the best revenge on the ex that left you. Walk away with a smile, and know that better things are ahead.

Sarge on boys, I appreciate the support that's been given lately.

Oh, ps, quit fapping :D , it helps, seriously!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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outofleftfield1987 said:
After she dumped me, I got laid twice in two nights
So the real question is here is how you found a girl to sleep with you so fast...

I haven't been laid in a year!
 
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One was a girl in my class, just invited her out for drinks and a movie and back to my place, then pulled a girl home from the bar the night after. I felt like physically getting over her would be the biggest hurdle.

Obviously, still not over it, but it helps.
 
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