"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Would you let a girl move in with you after barely 1 month? I found out an ex of mine moved in with a guy she meet after barely 1 month . Its not official since she still has her apartment, but pretty much just stops back to pick up clothes and belongings.

Its 1 thing to stay at someones house a couple of nights a week, or move in after say 6 months.But to stay 7 nights and days a week? Im really baffled by this. It kind of breaks all dj principles.I kind of think she has a motiff. do you see this as crash and burn? Did you ever hear of moving in that quickly?opinions?

And in case it wasnt implied I have 0 interest in having anything to do with her. It just has me surprised.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Oh, HELL no.

I'm sure it's actually worked out sometime in the history of the world, but that's a big ass risk. After one month, you don't know somebody. Hell, I'd say your getting a good grasp of it after one year.

I've had two ex's live with me, and let me tell you; you'll never know a chick until she's living with you. Can be good, can be bad, but after one month, that's insane.
 
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Yes it's definetely a motive. When a girl forces her way into your house - you have much less chance to break up with her and she becomes instant friends. Girls that have experienced living with someone know this. A friend of mines OWNED a condominium and DID not let his girlfriend of 1 1/2 years to move in even though she requested and he had space. A couple months later though he did, he cited to me "I've had experiences with girls where they just bum off free rent or they start owning the place, I gotta make sure that this girl is the one for me to spend life with before letting her shack up - he recommend that I spend at least a year with her before making a decision"

Guys/Girls who are quick to move or get you to move in less than 6 months have insecurity issues and down the line the probs may show up in unpredictable ways especially if you live with her, once you do.. you are fubared.
 
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