"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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jardine

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Would you let a girl move in with you after barely 1 month? I found out an ex of mine moved in with a guy she meet after barely 1 month . Its not official since she still has her apartment, but pretty much just stops back to pick up clothes and belongings.

Its 1 thing to stay at someones house a couple of nights a week, or move in after say 6 months.But to stay 7 nights and days a week? Im really baffled by this. It kind of breaks all dj principles.I kind of think she has a motiff. do you see this as crash and burn? Did you ever hear of moving in that quickly?opinions?

And in case it wasnt implied I have 0 interest in having anything to do with her. It just has me surprised.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Oh, HELL no.

I'm sure it's actually worked out sometime in the history of the world, but that's a big ass risk. After one month, you don't know somebody. Hell, I'd say your getting a good grasp of it after one year.

I've had two ex's live with me, and let me tell you; you'll never know a chick until she's living with you. Can be good, can be bad, but after one month, that's insane.
 
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Yes it's definetely a motive. When a girl forces her way into your house - you have much less chance to break up with her and she becomes instant friends. Girls that have experienced living with someone know this. A friend of mines OWNED a condominium and DID not let his girlfriend of 1 1/2 years to move in even though she requested and he had space. A couple months later though he did, he cited to me "I've had experiences with girls where they just bum off free rent or they start owning the place, I gotta make sure that this girl is the one for me to spend life with before letting her shack up - he recommend that I spend at least a year with her before making a decision"

Guys/Girls who are quick to move or get you to move in less than 6 months have insecurity issues and down the line the probs may show up in unpredictable ways especially if you live with her, once you do.. you are fubared.
 
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