"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Moving In With Hot Russian Girl in NYC?
- Thread starter bigneil
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Sonny Knight
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It's the strangest thing - to realize after only 5 weeks since meeting her that this random phone number turned into both a roommate and romantic relationship, and one that is actually really working.
I've never lived with a girl before, and I realize I like living with her. We have sex pretty much every night now, and she is falling for me for sure. I knew when I got that extended look during dinner. The comfortable silence as Pulp Fiction coined.
The Russian has officially cured me of the Stripper (after 18 months of dating), though I am keeping her on the side. I've realized that by my dating a girl 21 years younger, that now dating a girl 12 years younger is no problem. It's sort of like strength resistance training.
However last night the Russian actually said "My doctor said I have Borderline Personality Disorder". I said "My friends were right! BPD! So it's only a matter of time before I trigger abandonment disorder and you paint me black and the sex stops."
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
cordoncordon
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Here is the thing BN. These crazy women that you date? With all of the issues and everything else? You are JUST as crazy, maybe more so, than they are.bigneil said:
If you ever get a lucid moment in that head of yours? Think about that.
switch
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i think cordocordon is getting a hardonhardon for bigneil and his "lucid' threadcordoncordon said:
Read for yourself the progression of her comments. If I'm not delusional, lying, held at gun point or shot down in flames then I must be crazy.
Ufcrocks1969
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
switch
Master Don Juan
this is by far the most enter...ehem i mean most educational thread on this site.... *nom nom nom nom*
also hardonhardon and pakkkers should stop fapping to bigneil's thread.
She started to get nostalgic when I told her (while hugging her at her dressing table as she did her hair) and she later confessed her love. She also told me the other roommate has come to love me. Sort of a father/daughter relationship had formed there, so like a good father would I took the wife and kid to a strip bar in Queens and got them a lap dance. When you bring 2 hot girls to a strip club, you pretty much rule.
They wanted to go to another strip club (she had never had a drink and had been dry 2 years but decided to party that night). But I had to work the next day so I snuck home at 1am. Did you ever try to blow off a girl who is interested? Talk about them blowing up your phone. She got home via cab at 5:45am - so I tucked her in and left for work at 5:55am. Ironically I was 5 minutes late for the first time on the morning of my last full day in NY.
In the end she was a fun girlfriend and she saved me $4500 on the room alone ($750 a week exactly), plus I finally dumped the Texas stripper after 18 months so I'll save God knows how much there. Oh and I didn't get stabbed (knock on wood).
Bigneil, where did you find such girls? I live in NYC too and would love such experiences.
Was this manhattan?
Also, the photo links didn't work at all. And I couldn't really see your mysterious love bird
can you send me a pic in PM please?Cheers
