"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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daygameguy

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I've made some pretty pathetic approaches in the past so i was surprised to see my game go up a level today. I basically do day game, don't have time & money for night game. I'm a 22 yrs old graduate student waiting to complete education, GET A JOB and ENTER THE NIGHT GAME SCENE. but anyway, enough about me...

Here's the approach:
time: 4:30 pm, venue: campus, city: Los Angeles
We are walking towards each other, so I look at her when I am about 5-6 steps away, get a lil closer, smile, turn my head a little and say hi , she stops and smiles, i take another step so she turns her body towards me.

Me: tatoo opener
Her reply: no no its a bad idea and stuff
we talk a little about tattoos, and then,
I ask her name, shake hands and introduce myself
Her: Where are you from? (IOI)
Me: xxxxxxx
Me: Where are you from?
Her: LAS VEGAS (man my **** was so high at that point lol)
We talk a bit about las vegas and LA..
Her: Whats your major? (IOI)
Me: Computer Science, whats yours?
Her: Fine arts, i'm graduating this semester
Me: Oh, your about to graduate! thats awesome - Hi-Five (KINO)
Me: How old are you by the way? I'm just curious?
Her: I have my birthday next month, i'll be turning 22
Me: Oh, you're 22, that's sad, its just that, i'm 55, so i guess you're too young for me (C&F)
Me: So what do you do for fun?
we talk a lil while, and i ask her - I know we are both busy now, but you're like the coolest person i've met all day... we should continue our conversation sometime - maybe get a cup of coffee or something..
Her: maybe...(hesitates, maybe cos she had told me about some BF she had in vegas, when we were talking about vegas)
Her: are you on facebook, first lets talk facebook.
Me: I don't like any of these online chatting sites.. do you have email?
Get her email, and shake hands in a creative way (Bomb-Explode style lol), "nice to meet you", and thats it.


PS: I'm a little scared to neg, i don't know exactly WHat can be used as a neg... is stuff like "you're such a bad girl/dork" a neg?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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lookyoung

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All around you did a pretty good job. But you fvcked up big time when you got her email. NEVER GET A GIRLS EMAIL GET HER NUMBER. You should have said I don't chat by email but give me your number and I will give you a buzz.
 

daygameguy

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yea man, i'll keep that in mind.. but i'm just trying to hone my skills at the moment.. i wanna have this superpower of picking up any girl anytime. lol
 
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