"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Moving HB 8, Day Game close

daygameguy

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I've made some pretty pathetic approaches in the past so i was surprised to see my game go up a level today. I basically do day game, don't have time & money for night game. I'm a 22 yrs old graduate student waiting to complete education, GET A JOB and ENTER THE NIGHT GAME SCENE. but anyway, enough about me...

Here's the approach:
time: 4:30 pm, venue: campus, city: Los Angeles
We are walking towards each other, so I look at her when I am about 5-6 steps away, get a lil closer, smile, turn my head a little and say hi , she stops and smiles, i take another step so she turns her body towards me.

Me: tatoo opener
Her reply: no no its a bad idea and stuff
we talk a little about tattoos, and then,
I ask her name, shake hands and introduce myself
Her: Where are you from? (IOI)
Me: xxxxxxx
Me: Where are you from?
Her: LAS VEGAS (man my **** was so high at that point lol)
We talk a bit about las vegas and LA..
Her: Whats your major? (IOI)
Me: Computer Science, whats yours?
Her: Fine arts, i'm graduating this semester
Me: Oh, your about to graduate! thats awesome - Hi-Five (KINO)
Me: How old are you by the way? I'm just curious?
Her: I have my birthday next month, i'll be turning 22
Me: Oh, you're 22, that's sad, its just that, i'm 55, so i guess you're too young for me (C&F)
Me: So what do you do for fun?
we talk a lil while, and i ask her - I know we are both busy now, but you're like the coolest person i've met all day... we should continue our conversation sometime - maybe get a cup of coffee or something..
Her: maybe...(hesitates, maybe cos she had told me about some BF she had in vegas, when we were talking about vegas)
Her: are you on facebook, first lets talk facebook.
Me: I don't like any of these online chatting sites.. do you have email?
Get her email, and shake hands in a creative way (Bomb-Explode style lol), "nice to meet you", and thats it.


PS: I'm a little scared to neg, i don't know exactly WHat can be used as a neg... is stuff like "you're such a bad girl/dork" a neg?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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lookyoung

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All around you did a pretty good job. But you fvcked up big time when you got her email. NEVER GET A GIRLS EMAIL GET HER NUMBER. You should have said I don't chat by email but give me your number and I will give you a buzz.
 

daygameguy

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yea man, i'll keep that in mind.. but i'm just trying to hone my skills at the moment.. i wanna have this superpower of picking up any girl anytime. lol
 
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