"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Moving day is coming soon...scared sh!itless!

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Well time to cut the peranial unbilical cord that serves both as security and at the same time a way to limit onces freedoms....

moving to Fullerton (orange county) soon, I dont have housing or any contacts there... and only have 1200 cash....

obejectives:

-successfully gain entry into a Fullerton jr college
-find a room to live in
-find a job to pay the bills
-save enough to buy a car
-sever all finacial ties between parent and child` i mean parent and MAN...

any words of encoragements would be awsome.. i know this is not the place to ask for some, but right now you guys are all i have.. (issolation from any one i know, in a hotle room in a tottaly new town)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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OMG IM RIGHT THERE WITH YOU!!!! im going away to college in like 4 weeks and my sh*t isn't all the way fixed up...it's def time for me to leave im f*ckin sick of being were im at...and my pplz are long away from me...


i have....

1.one friend there about 3 hrs away

2.no job down there yet


im needing some help too...but i already know that i will be ready...just hustle and get your money right my man...get organized..that's what i plan to do...priorities before pleasure..i wouldn't even think about females until i have everything squared away:up:
 

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^^^what have you gotten done so far?^^^

-schooling
Me so far. I'v gotten my registration done.. and thats it... i havent even talked to councilor or any thing.. classes can be added online but i have to be there to take a placement test.. the problem is im 300 miles from the shcool... haha... greyhound can take me there for 100 bucks round trip but right now im trying to find a cheap place to stay for a couple of nights..

-room
found a room for 400 bucks a month, walking distance from the school. but i have to share with one more guy. the problem is its not furnished, and he wants 500 bucks securtiy deposit.. eek. that would eat up all my cash almost.. good news is all the schools have a listing of roommates needed on there builitinboards, so while im there taking the placement tests i should be able to procure a better room..

-job
im going to write a resume, and make a coupel dozen copizes, and after im done with my placement test i will spend most of my time applying for jobs...

-my mood right now..
-so scared... omg.. realizing now how important money is as a tool to get what you want...

Badmannaz-tell me about your plans.. hearing that other people are doing this same **** makes me less nervous.. haha.
 

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Eh, I just moved to college. Thing is, I moved away from my mom and in with my dad. I don't know its pretty good I guess. I don't have a job and am not concerned with gettin one anytime soon. My dad lets me come and go as I please and generally do whatever the hell I want as long as he doesn't have to bail me outta jail or get phone calls from the cops. I have quite a substantial amount of money saved up and my dad pays for most of my s.hit. I'm spoiled I know. Not something I'm proud of, but damn it, I'm having fun!

Anyways, the only real problem I had was making friends. And that turned out to be pretty easy. Just get out on the streets, just strike up some conversations with whoever the hell you come across. You at a hotel right? Do yourself a favor right now, and go down to the pool area to see if there's some hotties in the jacuzzi. Other than that, its virtually impossible not to meet some peeps in your classes.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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hell yea! cant wait for school ****ing start man, im in roch motale right now bro.. they dont even have a pool here.. man i wish my parents could afford to give me all the things you have, its all good though.im really great ful for what i have though. 9 years ago i would of still been living in a mud hut, with no future and would of died as a poor rice farmer in sri lanka.. iono why i just said that, i havent even told my best friend about this ****..
 

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cyp6 said:
hell yea! cant wait for school ****ing start man, im in roch motale right now bro.. they dont even have a pool here.. man i wish my parents could afford to give me all the things you have, its all good though.im really great ful for what i have though. 9 years ago i would of still been living in a mud hut, with no future and would of died as a poor rice farmer in sri lanka.. iono why i just said that, i havent even told my best friend about this ****..
Well I am thankful for my fortunate situation if it means anything. But other than that, where the hell you from? Sri Lanka? Was that a joke or are you serious? My bad on the hotel thing. Iono, check the hotel lobby, sometimes the people there are hella bored late at night. Never know who you're gonna meet ;) .
 

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im serious dude bout srilanka. its a really small island in the indean ocean, there a lot of problems with it because of the goverment curruption and a civil war.. im not tripping about the hotel its just for tonight ill be back in las veagas tmoarow night.
 

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Keep this in mind. YOU GO THERE WITH NOTHING, ANYTHING WOULD BE AN IMPROVEMENT!

Apply for any job at any pay. You have no income,so any would be better then none. So what if you have to take minumum wage for a month or two,ITS A MONTH OR TWO YOU ARE PAID! Just make enough for food and rent. Friend can be made and they cost no $$$,so just be friendly and you will build contacts quick.

Go from there...
 

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^^^ yea that sounds like sound advice.... althogh minimun wage will cut it and make rent i will take it untill i can find a better job... the good thing is i have a preity strong work history, so thats positive thing that i will be able to use to my advantage...(iv been working since i was 15) but i never used a resume before, so this should give me slight leverage... hopefully i could land a food server position or a busser possition.. anyone here a server or a busser?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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cyp6 said:
anyone here a server or a busser?
Look in the news paper. Get out and eat at an anyplace that seems like someplace you might want to work and ask to speak to the manager.
 
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