"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Moving day is coming soon...scared sh!itless!

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Well time to cut the peranial unbilical cord that serves both as security and at the same time a way to limit onces freedoms....

moving to Fullerton (orange county) soon, I dont have housing or any contacts there... and only have 1200 cash....

obejectives:

-successfully gain entry into a Fullerton jr college
-find a room to live in
-find a job to pay the bills
-save enough to buy a car
-sever all finacial ties between parent and child` i mean parent and MAN...

any words of encoragements would be awsome.. i know this is not the place to ask for some, but right now you guys are all i have.. (issolation from any one i know, in a hotle room in a tottaly new town)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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OMG IM RIGHT THERE WITH YOU!!!! im going away to college in like 4 weeks and my sh*t isn't all the way fixed up...it's def time for me to leave im f*ckin sick of being were im at...and my pplz are long away from me...


i have....

1.one friend there about 3 hrs away

2.no job down there yet


im needing some help too...but i already know that i will be ready...just hustle and get your money right my man...get organized..that's what i plan to do...priorities before pleasure..i wouldn't even think about females until i have everything squared away:up:
 
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^^^what have you gotten done so far?^^^

-schooling
Me so far. I'v gotten my registration done.. and thats it... i havent even talked to councilor or any thing.. classes can be added online but i have to be there to take a placement test.. the problem is im 300 miles from the shcool... haha... greyhound can take me there for 100 bucks round trip but right now im trying to find a cheap place to stay for a couple of nights..

-room
found a room for 400 bucks a month, walking distance from the school. but i have to share with one more guy. the problem is its not furnished, and he wants 500 bucks securtiy deposit.. eek. that would eat up all my cash almost.. good news is all the schools have a listing of roommates needed on there builitinboards, so while im there taking the placement tests i should be able to procure a better room..

-job
im going to write a resume, and make a coupel dozen copizes, and after im done with my placement test i will spend most of my time applying for jobs...

-my mood right now..
-so scared... omg.. realizing now how important money is as a tool to get what you want...

Badmannaz-tell me about your plans.. hearing that other people are doing this same **** makes me less nervous.. haha.
 
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Eh, I just moved to college. Thing is, I moved away from my mom and in with my dad. I don't know its pretty good I guess. I don't have a job and am not concerned with gettin one anytime soon. My dad lets me come and go as I please and generally do whatever the hell I want as long as he doesn't have to bail me outta jail or get phone calls from the cops. I have quite a substantial amount of money saved up and my dad pays for most of my s.hit. I'm spoiled I know. Not something I'm proud of, but damn it, I'm having fun!

Anyways, the only real problem I had was making friends. And that turned out to be pretty easy. Just get out on the streets, just strike up some conversations with whoever the hell you come across. You at a hotel right? Do yourself a favor right now, and go down to the pool area to see if there's some hotties in the jacuzzi. Other than that, its virtually impossible not to meet some peeps in your classes.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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hell yea! cant wait for school ****ing start man, im in roch motale right now bro.. they dont even have a pool here.. man i wish my parents could afford to give me all the things you have, its all good though.im really great ful for what i have though. 9 years ago i would of still been living in a mud hut, with no future and would of died as a poor rice farmer in sri lanka.. iono why i just said that, i havent even told my best friend about this ****..
 
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cyp6 said:
hell yea! cant wait for school ****ing start man, im in roch motale right now bro.. they dont even have a pool here.. man i wish my parents could afford to give me all the things you have, its all good though.im really great ful for what i have though. 9 years ago i would of still been living in a mud hut, with no future and would of died as a poor rice farmer in sri lanka.. iono why i just said that, i havent even told my best friend about this ****..
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Well I am thankful for my fortunate situation if it means anything. But other than that, where the hell you from? Sri Lanka? Was that a joke or are you serious? My bad on the hotel thing. Iono, check the hotel lobby, sometimes the people there are hella bored late at night. Never know who you're gonna meet ;) .
 
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im serious dude bout srilanka. its a really small island in the indean ocean, there a lot of problems with it because of the goverment curruption and a civil war.. im not tripping about the hotel its just for tonight ill be back in las veagas tmoarow night.
 
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Keep this in mind. YOU GO THERE WITH NOTHING, ANYTHING WOULD BE AN IMPROVEMENT!

Apply for any job at any pay. You have no income,so any would be better then none. So what if you have to take minumum wage for a month or two,ITS A MONTH OR TWO YOU ARE PAID! Just make enough for food and rent. Friend can be made and they cost no $$$,so just be friendly and you will build contacts quick.

Go from there...
 
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^^^ yea that sounds like sound advice.... althogh minimun wage will cut it and make rent i will take it untill i can find a better job... the good thing is i have a preity strong work history, so thats positive thing that i will be able to use to my advantage...(iv been working since i was 15) but i never used a resume before, so this should give me slight leverage... hopefully i could land a food server position or a busser possition.. anyone here a server or a busser?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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cyp6 said:
anyone here a server or a busser?
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Look in the news paper. Get out and eat at an anyplace that seems like someplace you might want to work and ask to speak to the manager.
 
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