"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
"Movies" with PUA's
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Martin Shabazz Jr.
Don Juan
A good one is Sprung with Ashton Kutcher. I think you can even watch it for free on youtube. I also like Goldfinger with Sean Connery.
And when you watch these movies pay less attention to what these characters say and more attention to their body language and mannerisms.
Victory Unlimited
Master Don Juan
I'll play. I've got two to recommend off the top of my head:
"The Tao of Steve"
I highly recommend this one. This guy actually loves getting with the ladies. There's not a lot of bitterness, self-hate, or woman-hate in him. He's just a guy that's GOOD with the ladies and shares his "philosophies" with his group of friends. This has some of the better examples of "smooth operator IN ACTION" scenes than in most movies of it's kind. It's mostly lighthearted, but VERY truthful just the same.
Here's a clip:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D-B23kX0cXk
"What Love Is"
This is a very abrasive and "in your face" take on relationships and different relationship philosophies. If you're looking for a typical PUA mindset (that some would say leans towards the pessimistic side), then I suggest you watch this and place close attention to Matthew Lilliard's character. Also, pay attention to the women when they break down their philosophies too. I don't necessarily sign off on all that is said here, but this is still some thought provoking stuff nevertheless.
Here's a clip:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9qsKWbqr1GU
dereklovesugly
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dereklovesugly
Don Juan
- Joined
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- Messages
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- Reaction score
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
bukowski_merit
Master Don Juan
- "Ask the Dust" - John Fante is actually one of my favorite authors (he greatly influenced the man my name is based on: Charles Bukowski). He plays a loving ******* in this. + Salma Hyack nude is pretty nice.
- "The unbearable lightness of being" - The main character (a successful doctor) is the definition of smooth. His frame control is masterful; always remains unaffected by what women throw at him. He does what he wants and women eat it up. Has a wife who lets him. (note: the book is 100 times better, but this is a movie discussion).
Films I have been watching include..."Maid in Sweden"..."Au Pair Girls"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qbbw5UtnxyE
Great film with a super sweet soundtrack. Great vibe. Hell, I actually skip the sex scenes.
Let me note that NONE of these films qualify as pornography! None of them. "R" rated? Yes, but in 2011 they are basically very innocent with amazing soundtracks. Pure cult classics. "Maid in Sweden" is one of my all time favorite films. The soundtrack is top notch!! Interesting that most of the exploitation European films were shot by Americans! Yes, a bunch of Brooklyn Jewish guys created this subversive world of cult films that still hold up 40 years later!! Bravo.
Go to amazon.com. You can buy these films for a few bucks! The quality often sucks, but that just adds to the dynamic!
Right now I am getting set to watch, "Swedish Fly Girls"! Wish me luck!!!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zFlAoYqlpGE&feature=related
If you like that opening scene I have two words for you - Latvia...Estonia. Trust me. Any of your fathers could date something like that. I promise.
