"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
"Movies" with PUA's
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Martin Shabazz Jr.
Don Juan
A good one is Sprung with Ashton Kutcher. I think you can even watch it for free on youtube. I also like Goldfinger with Sean Connery.
And when you watch these movies pay less attention to what these characters say and more attention to their body language and mannerisms.
Victory Unlimited
Master Don Juan
I'll play. I've got two to recommend off the top of my head:
"The Tao of Steve"
I highly recommend this one. This guy actually loves getting with the ladies. There's not a lot of bitterness, self-hate, or woman-hate in him. He's just a guy that's GOOD with the ladies and shares his "philosophies" with his group of friends. This has some of the better examples of "smooth operator IN ACTION" scenes than in most movies of it's kind. It's mostly lighthearted, but VERY truthful just the same.
Here's a clip:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D-B23kX0cXk
"What Love Is"
This is a very abrasive and "in your face" take on relationships and different relationship philosophies. If you're looking for a typical PUA mindset (that some would say leans towards the pessimistic side), then I suggest you watch this and place close attention to Matthew Lilliard's character. Also, pay attention to the women when they break down their philosophies too. I don't necessarily sign off on all that is said here, but this is still some thought provoking stuff nevertheless.
Here's a clip:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9qsKWbqr1GU
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dereklovesugly
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
bukowski_merit
Master Don Juan
- "Ask the Dust" - John Fante is actually one of my favorite authors (he greatly influenced the man my name is based on: Charles Bukowski). He plays a loving ******* in this. + Salma Hyack nude is pretty nice.
- "The unbearable lightness of being" - The main character (a successful doctor) is the definition of smooth. His frame control is masterful; always remains unaffected by what women throw at him. He does what he wants and women eat it up. Has a wife who lets him. (note: the book is 100 times better, but this is a movie discussion).
Films I have been watching include..."Maid in Sweden"..."Au Pair Girls"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qbbw5UtnxyE
Great film with a super sweet soundtrack. Great vibe. Hell, I actually skip the sex scenes.
Let me note that NONE of these films qualify as pornography! None of them. "R" rated? Yes, but in 2011 they are basically very innocent with amazing soundtracks. Pure cult classics. "Maid in Sweden" is one of my all time favorite films. The soundtrack is top notch!! Interesting that most of the exploitation European films were shot by Americans! Yes, a bunch of Brooklyn Jewish guys created this subversive world of cult films that still hold up 40 years later!! Bravo.
Go to amazon.com. You can buy these films for a few bucks! The quality often sucks, but that just adds to the dynamic!
Right now I am getting set to watch, "Swedish Fly Girls"! Wish me luck!!!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zFlAoYqlpGE&feature=related
If you like that opening scene I have two words for you - Latvia...Estonia. Trust me. Any of your fathers could date something like that. I promise.
